See The Goodness Of God and Be Transformed

Introduction: 

Many people obey God because they fear Him. Fewer are transformed because they truly know Him.

God is both perfectly just and abundantly good. Yet these two aspects of His character do not produce the same outcome in the human heart. Judgment can constrain behaviors.  Goodness changes desires. Judgment can force compliance. Goodness draws us into relationship—and relationship produces transformation.

If you want to live the life God intended, not merely conform to a set of rules, you must learn to see, trust, and respond to the goodness of God.

What Is the Goodness of God?

The goodness of God is His faithful, loving, merciful, covenant-keeping character, consistently expressed toward people who do not deserve it.  This is not to be confused with indulgence, tolerance, or permissiveness. 

“The LORD is good to all, And His tender mercies are over all His works.”   — Psalm 145:9

God’s goodness includes:

    • Love that initiates before repentance
    • Mercy that withholds deserved judgment
    • Grace that empowers change, and does not excuse sin
    • Faithfulness that keeps promises across generations
    • Patience that gives space for repentance

“Or do you despise the riches of His goodness, forbearance, and longsuffering, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?”   — Romans 2:4

This verse is decisive: repentance is not primarily produced by fear—it is produced by goodness rightly perceived.

How the Goodness of God Differs from the Judgment of God

God’s Goodness and God’s Judgment are two distinct Divine Tools.

God is both abundantly good and perfectly just at the same time. These attributes do not compete with one another, nor do they serve the same function. 

Confusion arises when judgment is expected to accomplish what only goodness can, or when goodness is mistaken for the absence of judgment.  God employs each tool according to its purpose—and transformation depends on understanding the difference.

Judgment establishes moral reality. Goodness invites us into a relationship.

“The LORD is righteous in all His ways,  Gracious in all His works.”  — Psalm 145:17

God’s judgment defines truth, consequence, and accountability. It sets boundaries in a fallen world where sin distorts judgment and desire.

“For the LORD is our Judge, The LORD is our Lawgiver, The LORD is our King; He will save us.” — Isaiah 33:22

Judgment answers the question: What is right, and what happens if I persist in rebellion?

Goodness answers a different question: Who is God, and can He be trusted with my life?

“Oh, give thanks to the LORD, for He is good!  For His mercy endures forever.” — Psalm 136:1

Judgment restrains chaos and brings order. Goodness invites and builds relationship.

Both are necessary—but they are not the same and are not interchangeable.

How Humans Actually Respond to Each

God’s attributes interact with fallen human hearts, activating very different internal responses; judgment and goodness awaken different postures within us.

Judgment Activates the Mind

Judgment confronts sin through consequence and authority. Its primary internal effect is fear, which triggers self-protection and behavioral restraint.

Judgment primarily engages the mind by clarifying truth and consequences, authority and accountability. It removes ignorance and forces recognition of moral reality. The heart is affected through fear of consequences, this fear restrains behavior but does not inspire the submission necessary to shift our desires and enable transformation.

“Knowing, therefore, the terror of the Lord, we persuade men…” — 2 Corinthians 5:11

Fear is appropriate and necessary, particularly when a person is unaware of the seriousness of sin. A threat of consequences will get your attention and compel you to understand options to avoid those consequences.   Scripture calls this “the beginning of wisdom”.

“The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, And the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.” — Proverbs 9:10

Fear-based motivation tends to produce:

      • External conformity/compliance
      • Defensive obedience
      • Calculation of risk versus reward
      • Minimal compliance to avoid consequence

“For what the law could not do in that it was weak through the flesh…” — Romans 8:3

Judgment can expose sin, but it cannot heal desire. It can restrain behavior, but it cannot transform the heart.

Goodness Activates the Heart

God’s goodness engages a different internal mechanism: Trust.

Where fear causes withdrawal, goodness creates safety. Where judgment confronts, goodness invites.

“Taste and see that the LORD is good; Blessed is the man who trusts in Him!”  — Psalm 34:8

Trust allows the heart to open rather than defend itself. This openness makes repentance possible—not as forced submission, but as willing return to God.

“Or do you despise the riches of His goodness, forbearance, and longsuffering, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?”  — Romans 2:4

Goodness produces:

      • Willing surrender
      • Honest confession
      • Relational obedience
      • Engagement to change Desires

“I drew them with gentle cords, with bands of love…” — Hosea 11:4

Summary of the differences

Judgment warns the mind. Goodness wins the heart.

The distinction becomes even more clear in the output.

    • Compliance is behavior constrained by fear.
    • Transformation is identity reshaped by trust.

Judgment works from the outside in. It applies pressure to behavior.

Goodness works from the inside out. It reshapes desires.

“For the law made nothing perfect; on the other hand, there is the bringing in of a better hope, through which we draw near to God.” — Hebrews 7:19

People can obey without surrender. They cannot be transformed without it.

Surrender requires trust. Trust requires perceived goodness.

“Your gentleness has made me great.”
— Psalm 18:35

Judgment can stop destructive behavior. That is a mercy. But stopping sin is not the same as becoming new.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.”
— 2 Corinthians 5:17

Transformation involves:

    • New desires
    • New motivations
    • New identity
    • New orientation toward God

These cannot be coerced. They must be chosen—and choice requires trust.

This is why Scripture consistently moves people from law to grace, from fear to love, from external control to internal renewal.

“For the law was given through Moses, but grace and truth came through Jesus Christ.”
— John 1:17

Judgment awakens the conscience.
Goodness remakes the person.

God uses judgment to confront rebellion.
He uses goodness to draw us into relationship—and relationship is where transformation occurs.

If judgment shows us that we must change, the goodness of God convinces us that change is worth making—and that is why Jesus leads not with threats, but with invitation.

Here is a summary of the effects of  Judgement and Goodnes

Aspect

Judgment of God Goodness of God
Primary Function Accountability Attraction
Motivation Produced Fear Trust
Typical Result Compliance Surrender
Effect on the Heart Restrains behavior Changes desires
Longevity Often temporary Enduring
Relationship Outcome Distance Intimacy

“The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom…” — Proverbs 9:10

“There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear…” — 1 John 4:18

Fear may start the journey. Love must complete it.

Why Jesus Leads with Love

Judgment says: “Change or else.”
Goodness says: “Come and live.”

Jesus never built His kingdom through intimidation. He described Himself as a shepherd, not a warden.

“I am the good shepherd; and I know My sheep, and am known by My own…
My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me.” — John 10:14, 27

Sheep are not driven by fear. They are drawn by trust. They follow because they recognize the shepherd’s voice and character.

Judgment can stop outward rebellion.
Goodness awakens inward allegiance.

Why Transformation Matters

Transformation is not optional. It is central to God’s purpose.

1. We Are Co-Workers in Creation

God does not merely save us from sin; He restores us to purpose.

“For we are God’s fellow workers…” — 1 Corinthians 3:9

An untransformed life cannot steward divine responsibility.

2. We Are Ambassadors and Representatives

“Now then, we are ambassadors for Christ…” — 2 Corinthians 5:20

Fear-based obedience produces brittle ambassadors.
Goodness-formed hearts reflect God accurately.

3. We Exist to Bring God Glory in All We Do

“Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”
— 1 Corinthians 10:31

Only a transformed heart glorifies God consistently—especially when no one is watching.

4. Transformation Prepares Us for Heaven

Heaven is not merely a destination; it is a culture. Those who resist transformation now would find heaven unbearable later.

“But we all… are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory…”  — 2 Corinthians 3:18

How the Goodness of God Transforms

Transformation follows a discernible internal progression:

    • Goodness is perceived
    • Trust is formed
    • Surrender becomes possible
    • Obedience flows willingly
    • Character is reshaped

“Taste and see that the LORD is good; Blessed is the man who trusts in Him!” — Psalm 34:8

You cannot surrender to someone you do not trust.
You cannot trust someone whose goodness you do not believe.

How God’s Goodness Has Manifested

God’s goodness is not abstract. It is historical, personal, and observable.

Supremely in Christ

“But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” — Romans 5:8

Jesus is not merely the solution to judgment; He is the revelation of God’s goodness in flesh.

Personally in Your Life

Protection you did not recognize

Provision you did not earn

Patience you abused but were still given

Conviction that prevented worse destruction

“Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me All the days of my life…”  — Psalm 23:6

How to See, Embrace, and Be Transformed by God’s Goodness

Seeing the goodness of God is not automatic. It must be learned, practiced, and protected.

Many people are surrounded by evidence of God’s goodness yet remain blind to it—not because God is absent, but because fear, wounds, self-reliance, and distorted beliefs filter what they see. Transformation begins when those filters are removed and replaced with truth.

1. Re-frame God Correctly

You cannot embrace the goodness of God if you are relating to a false version of Him.

For many, God has been unconsciously recast as angry and distant:

      • A strict taskmaster
      • A distant authority figure
      • A transactional judge
      • A reluctant giver of grace

These are false images of God and must be rejected and replaced with the truth as revealed in God’s word:

“The LORD, the LORD God, merciful and gracious, longsuffering, and abounding in goodness and truth.”
— Exodus 34:6

Practice:

Consciously replace false assumptions about God with Scripture-based truth.

When any negative thought about God arises (“God is disappointed with me,” “God is withholding good”), pause and ask: Where did I learn this, and does Scripture actually support it?

2. Practice Intentional Remembrance

Transformation accelerates when goodness is remembered.

Many people decide whether God is good based on how life is going. Scripture teaches the opposite: God’s character interprets circumstances, not circumstances interpreting God.

“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God…”
— Romans 8:28

Trials do not negate God’s goodness; they often reveal it later.

Practice:

When facing difficulty, intentionally ask:

What might God be protecting me from?

What might He be shaping in me?

How could this be an expression of long-term good rather than immediate comfort?

3. Train Yourself to Notice and Name God’s Goodness Daily

God’s goodness is often subtle, cumulative, and easily overlooked—especially by people trained by the world to focus on lack, threat, and control.

“Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all His benefits.”
— Psalm 103:2

Forgetting is not accidental; it is a default condition.

Practice:

Develop a daily practice of reflection and recognition:

Write down things your are grateful for – Goodness that you can see around your or in your life

Write down specific instances of provision, protection, patience, or guidance

Thank God for mercy you did not earn and consequences you were spared

Revisit past seasons and identify where God’s goodness was present but unrecognized at the time

This trains spiritual perception.

4. Spend Time In The Word with Jesus Until His Character Becomes Your Reference Point

Jesus is the clearest, safest, and fullest revelation of God’s goodness.

“He who has seen Me has seen the Father.” – John 14:9

If your view of God contradicts with the way Jesus treated sinners, strugglers, and the broken, your view is wrong.

Practice:

Read the 4 Gospels – Matthew, Mark, Luke, John one small section at a time and observe:

        • Who Jesus draws near to
        • How He responds to repentance versus pride
        • What He corrects
        • What He restores
        • Ask repeatedly:
          • What does this passage reveal about God’s heart toward people?
          • Is this how I expect God to treat me?

5. Respond to God’s Goodness with Surrender, Not Suspicion

Goodness invites trust, but many respond with guardedness:

“What will this cost me?”

“What if God asks too much?”

“What if I lose control?”

Trust is the bridge between seeing goodness and being transformed by it.

“Taste and see that the LORD is good; Blessed is the man who trusts in Him!” — Psalm 34:8

Practice:

Identify one area of your life where you are resisting God and intentionally surrender it—not because you fully understand, but because you trust His character.

If you want help deciding, just ask him. 

“Lord, In what area am i resisting you, What should I surrender to you today.?” 

Write down what He tells you, then do it

Obedience in response to goodness strengthens trust exponentially.

6.  Allow God’s Kindness to Lead You into Repentance, Not Self-Condemnation

God’s goodness exposes sin, but it does so safely—without shame or rejection.

“The goodness of God leads you to repentance.”— Romans 2:4

If conviction produces despair, hiding, or self-hatred, it is not being interpreted through God’s goodness.

Practice:

When convicted:

        • Confess quickly
        • Receive forgiveness fully
        • Return to relationship immediately
        • Do not linger in guilt; linger in gratitude.

7. Reinforce Trust Through Repeated Obedience

Trust grows through experience.

Each time you obey and discover that God was faithful, your capacity to see His goodness increases.

“If anyone wants to do His will, he shall know concerning the doctrine…” — John 7:17

Understanding follows obedience, not the other way around.

Practice:

Start with small acts of obedience. Let lived experience confirm what Scripture declares about God’s goodness.

“I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice…” — Romans 12:1

Am I Seeing the Goodness of God?

Before transformation can occur, God must be seen accurately. Many people believe in God, obey God, or even fear God—but they do not truly know Him. If God is primarily perceived as distant, harsh, or easily disappointed, the heart will remain guarded, defensive, and self-protective. Repentance and surrender flow not from terror, but from rightly perceiving God’s goodness.

“Oh, how great is Your goodness, Which You have laid up for those who fear You…”  — Psalm 31:19

The following table is designed to help you discern whether you recognize God as He reveals Himself—or are you relating to a distorted image shaped by fear, wounds, or religion.

 

Area If I Do Not See God’s Goodness If I Recognize God’s Goodness
View of God God feels distant, stern, easily disappointed God is near, patient, and faithful
Default Expectation I expect correction before compassion I expect mercy alongside truth
Response to Failure Shame, hiding, self-punishment Confession, humility, return
Interpretation of Trials God is against me or punishing me God is refining, teaching, redirecting
Gratitude Rare or conditional Frequent and specific
Scripture Lens Verses feel demanding or threatening Verses feel instructive and hopeful
Prayer Tone Defensive or transactional Honest, relational, trusting

Reflection Questions

When I fail, do I move toward God or away from Him?

Do I believe God enjoys showing mercy?

Would I describe God as someone I want to be with?

Am I Applying the Goodness Of God To My Life?

Seeing God’s goodness is only the beginning; trust is the proving ground. Many acknowledge God’s goodness intellectually while continuing to rely on themselves in practice. Trust is revealed not by words, but by decisions—especially when obedience feels costly, unclear, or uncomfortable.

“In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God…” — 1 Thessalonians 5:18

The following table examines whether God’s goodness is actively shaping your choices, priorities, and responses, or whether fear, control, and self-reliance still dominate your day-to-day life.

 

Area Trust Is Weak Trust Is Growing
Obedience Delayed, negotiated, selective Prompt and willing
Motivation Fear of consequences Confidence in God’s wisdom
Decision-Making Heavy self-reliance Prayerful dependence
Control Difficulty releasing outcomes Peace after surrender
Risk Avoids obedience that feels costly Obeys even when uncomfortable
Prayer Content Mostly requests and complaints Praise, alignment, listening
Scripture Use Used for justification Used for correction and guidance

Reflection Questions

Do I obey only when I agree or understand?

Where am I still hedging instead of surrendering?

What would full trust look like in my current situation?

Am I Being Transformed?

Transformation is not measured by intention, knowledge, or religious activity—it is measured by change.

Behavioral improvement alone is not the goal; God calls for inward renewal that reshapes desires, identity, and character over time. Many people manage sin without being freed from it, restrain behavior without renewing the heart, or perform righteousness without intimacy with God.

The following table is meant to help you honestly assess whether the goodness of God is producing real, observable transformation in you—or whether you are still operating primarily in self-effort and compliance.

 

Evidence Behavior Constrained Heart Transformation
Desires Same desires, better restraint New desires emerging
Conviction Comes late and feels harsh Comes early and feels gentle
Sin Patterns Cyclical and recurring Interrupted and weakening
Humility Defensive when corrected Teachable and responsive
Love for Others Conditional and selective Expanding and sacrificial
Inner Dialogue Fear, self-justification Trust, surrender, hope
Fruit of the Spirit Inconsistent and forced Increasing and natural
Identity Still rooted in performance Rooted in sonship

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation…” — 2 Corinthians 5:17

Reflection Questions

Are my desires changing or just my behavior?

Do I recognize conviction sooner than I used to?

Are others experiencing God’s goodness through me?

So Where Are You?

Life is a journey and we all need to start somewhere. Which stage do you find yourself?

Stage Description
   
Blind / Oblivious Living Life, Ignoring God. Hoping for the best
Fear-Driven Compliance Obeying to avoid consequences
Mixed Motivation Obeying partly from fear, partly from trust
Goodness-Driven Obedience Obeying because I trust God’s heart
Transformed Living Desires, identity, and purpose reshaped

Where to Learn More

Scripture Themes to Study

God’s character and names (Exodus 34; Psalm 103)

Jesus as the Good Shepherd (John 10)

Grace and transformation (Romans 5–8; Titus 2)

Life in the Spirit (Galatians 5)

Key Questions for Study

How does God describe Himself?

How does Jesus treat sinners versus the self-righteous?

What does grace train me to do?

Call to Action

Stop obeying God merely to avoid consequences.

See His goodness. Trust His heart. Surrender fully.

Judgment may keep you from destruction.
Goodness will lead you into life.

“Taste and see that the LORD is good.” — Psalm 34:8

Do not settle for mere compliance when God is offering transformation and being set free.

Key Lesson: There Is One God And I Am Not Him

Introduction

Life is hard,  Trials and Tribulations are not optional—they are inevitable. Every one of us will face moments where life presses us beyond our strength, wisdom, or resources. But those seasons, as painful as they are, are classrooms for spiritual growth.

This post is part of a series called Key Lessons from Trials; Truths that, when learned and applied, can transform how we experience life, help us avoid any unnecessary suffering going forward, and shape us into the people God created us to be to do good works here and prepare us to be with Him for eternity.

Some lessons must be learned through the fire ourselves, others can be learned by acquiring wisdom from others before we get burned.  This particular lesson is worth learning as early in life as possible to minimize any unnecessary distress:

“There is one God—and I am not Him”

God is very specific and clear in His guidance

His Word is very clear over and over — there is only one God, He is it, and we are to worship and serve Him alone.

“You shall have no other gods before Me.” — Exodus 20:3

We are not gods, and we are not meant to worship ourselves. From Genesis to Revelation, God draws a sharp line between the Creator and His creation. When we blur that line, pride takes root, and destruction soon follows.

“You shall worship the Lord your God” – Luke 4:8

“Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever.” – Romans 1:24-25

“Pride goes before destruction, And a haughty spirit before a fall.” Proverbs 16:18

We are called to value Him for what He has done for us, fear Him for the righteous judgment that awaits all who have sinned, and yield to Him because His love is unconditional, His wisdom is infinite, His plans are perfect, and His power knows no limits.

“Oh, give thanks to the Lord, for He is good!  For His mercy endures forever ”  Psalm 106:1, 1071

“You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.” — Mark 12:30

When we submit to Him and make Him our God, He promises to protect, provide, and bless us. His covering brings peace, purpose, and safety even in the midst of trials.
But when we rebel—when we place ourselves first, chase our own desires, and trust in our own knowledge and strength — we push Him away and open the door to confusion, anxiety, and the destructive forces of evil.

“Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.”  — James 4:8

“Because he has set his love upon Me, therefore I will deliver him; I will set him on high, because he has known My name.
He shall call upon Me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him and honor him.
With long life I will satisfy him, And show him My salvation.” Psalm 91:14-16

This is not merely a theological distinction—it’s a matter of spiritual survival. Every trial, every hardship, and every moment of surrender calls us back to this foundational truth:

He alone is God, and our lives can only truly prosper and bear fruit when we align with Him on the throne.

Trials Teach Us Who’s Really in Control

Our success and comfortable life allows us to put God in the background, we loose focus on the reality that God is the source of all we have and we are here for His pleasure not our own. We don’t realize how self-focused and self-reliant we are until something happens that we can’t fix ourselves —a diagnosis, a betrayal, a financial collapse, a loss, or a door slammed shut that we can’t pry open.

It’s in those moments that we discover the limits of our own power and the depth of our need for the One who truly holds all power.

“My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.”— 2 Corinthians 12:9

When we reach the end of ourselves, we stand at the beginning of God’s miraculous work.
This is how the lesson takes root:
We stop trying to be our own god, and we start depending on the one true God who alone can redeem, restore, and renew.

What It Looks Like When We Make Ourselves God

Pride often deceives us into thinking:

“This is my life, I am going to live it my way…”

“I know what’s best for me….”

“I’m going to follow my heart …”

“God gave me a brain, I will figure it out….”

“I’m strong, I can handle this…”

“I’m a good person, I deserve…..”

We lean on our understanding, logic, hustle, and experience — until the mountain in front of us refuses to move, or keeps getting higher.
Then we see the truth: We’ve been sitting on a throne that doesn’t belong to us, pretending this life is all about ME and I am in control.

“Professing to be wise, they became fools, and changed the glory of the incorruptible God into an image made like corruptible man.”— Romans 1:22–23 

When we make ourselves god, it can take several forms:

Control: Forcing outcomes instead of yielding and trusting God’s approach or timing.

Anxiety: Facing the uncertain future assuming everything depends on our own strength and resourcefulness.

Self-worship: Seeking validation, success, pleasure, or praise more than God’s presence.

Disobedience: Doing what feels right to us hear and now instead of what God calls us to do.

At some point we need to discover we are in no position to even try to be god of our own life.

We were born into a fallen world, our hearts/emotions are seriously flawed and will lead us in the wrong direction if we follow them.

“The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it?” -Jeremiah 17:9 

“For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person.” – Mark 7:21-23

Our minds are conditioned by the fallen world around us, we do not properly understand the ways of the spiritual world we are a part of.

“Whoever trusts in his own mind is a fool, but he who walks in wisdom will be delivered.” Proverbs 28:26

 “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” Isaiah 55:8-9

Our mind will reach incorrect conclusions without understanding and renewal based on God’s word. 

“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” – Romans 12:2

Our thoughts are influenced by evil and must be taken captive.

“We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ, “- 2 Corinthians 10:5

We were never intended to be our own god. Pursuing our own self-centered agendas with our limited earthly minds may appear to work for the short term, but it is building up a chain of consequences which will not serve us well in the long term. Even if we appear to be succeeding in the ways of the world with money and fancy things and a career exerting power and influence over people around us, we all face judgement before God in due time. He sent His son to redeem us from the ways of the world and to live humbly in love and to represent Him on this earth.  He makes it very clear, If we choose to ignore Him and live separate from Him now, we will experience spiritual death and get to live separated from Him for eternity. 

“There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death.” — Proverbs 14:12

What It Looks Like When We Make God Our God

When the trial breaks our pride and we finally surrender, we open the door to peace and power that were never available under self-rule.

“In peace I will both lie down and sleep, for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety,” –Psalm 4:8, 

“In returning and rest you shall be saved; in quietness and confidence shall be your strength” – Isaiah 30:15 

Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden,… and you will find rest for your souls….“- Matthew 11:28-30

When God is truly God in our lives, it looks like:

Surrender: Yield your life and your future to God; His Unconditional Love, Divine Wisdom, Perfect Plans and Supreme Power:

 “…Not my will, but Yours be done.” Luke 22:42

Faith: Choosing to trust Him when we can’t yet see the outcome or even the path forward.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.” – Proverbs 3:5-6

Obedience: Allowing His Word to shape our decisions.

“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” – Psalm 119:105

“Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock.” – Matthew 7:24

“This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success.” – Joshua 1:8

Peace: Resting in His control instead of our effort.

“Be still, and know that I am God.” — Psalm 46:10

“And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful.” – Colossians 3:15

Gratitude: Converting anxiety into fervent prayer and gratitude. Thanking Him in every circumstance, not just after deliverance.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” – Philippians 4:6

Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

“…The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.” – James 5:16

How to Apply This Lesson

Whether you’re in a storm right now or wanting to prepare for the inevitable one in the future, here are ways to learn and apply this truth without waiting for life to break you:

Acknowledge Him, His Role and Your Limits

Admit that you are not in control—and that’s a good thing. Surrender is the beginning of wisdom.

“The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom.” — Proverbs 9:10

“…With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” – Matthew 19:26

He Is the Vine you are a Branch, without Him you can do nothing, but with Him anything is possible.

“I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing.” – John 15:5

“If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you.- John 15:7

“I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” -Philippians 4:13

“Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” – Isaiah 41:10

Seek God Early and Often

Don’t wait until crisis hits to call on Him. Build a deep personal relationship no and get in the habit of depending on Him now.

 “You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart.” – Jeremiah 29:13

“But from there you will seek the Lord your God and you will find him, if you search after him with all your heart and with all your soul.” – Deuteronomy 4:29

Let Scripture Shape Your Perspective

God’s Word renews our minds and reminds us who He is. Read it not for just for information but to get to know God and to let Hm transform you.

“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” – Romans 12:2 

“Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord, and turn away from evil. It will be healing to your flesh and refreshment to your bones. – Proverbs 3:7-8

“All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.” 2 Timothy 3:16-17

“For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” – Hebrews 4:12 

“Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God.” Colossians 3:16 

“My son, be attentive to my words; incline your ear to my sayings. Let them not escape from your sight; keep them within your heart. For they are life to those who find them, and healing to all their flesh.” – Proverbs 4:20-22

Apply A Specific Declaration Of Faith For This Lesson

A declaration of faith for “There is One God and I Am Not Him” is included at the end of this post

– speak it outload until you fully embrace and feel convicted by the message.

A dedicated page for this declaration is at this link – with additional reference verses 

Pray Honest Prayers

Tell God when you feel helpless. He already knows. That honesty opens the door for His power to move.

“Pray without ceasing,” – 1 Thessalonians 5:17

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” – Philippians 4:6

Remember the Lesson When the Trial Ends

When life gets easier, don’t slip back into self-reliance. Let every past trial remind you: you are not God, and that’s why life is safe in His hands.

The Fruit of Learning This Lesson

When this truth takes hold, your outlook changes:

You stop trying to control outcomes and start trusting God’s plan.

You stop blaming yourself for what only God can fix.

You gain peace that surpasses understanding even in the storm.

You find strength not in your power, but in His.

“For of Him and through Him and to Him are all things, to whom be glory forever. Amen.” — Romans 11:36 (NKJV)

Additional Resources

Trials Squeeze The Real You Out <Blog Post>

Dan Mohler: Get Your Motive Right, You Are Here to Shine <Video>

Book: The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren – Understanding why you exist for God’s glory.

Book: The Pursuit of God by A.W. Tozer – Returning to a God-centered life.

Book: “I Am Not (God) but I Know I AM” by Louie Giglio, Passion City Church <Book>

Scripture Reading: Read Job 38–42 for God’s reminder of His sovereignty.

Reflection Practice: Journal how a past trial revealed your limits and strengthened your trust in God.

Closing Thought

The quicker we learn that there is one God and we are not Him, the lighter our burdens become.
Trials may expose our weakness—but they also reveal His strength.

“Know that the Lord, He is God; it is He who has made us, and not we ourselves; we are His people and the sheep of His pasture.” – Psalm 100:3

So whether you’re in a storm or watching one pass, remember this key lesson:
You don’t have to be god over your life.
You just have to trust the God who is.

“The LORD, He is God; there is no other besides Him.” — Deuteronomy 4:35 (NKJV)

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Declaration:  “There is One God and I Am Not Him”

“I acknowledge and declare that there is one true and living God, the Creator of heaven and earth, and I am not Him. He alone is worthy of all worship, honor, and praise.
I renounce pride, self-serving agendas, self-reliance, and every form of self-worship that leads to idolatry of the heart.
I choose instead to humble myself before God, to seek His will above my own, and to live in obedience to His Word.
His wisdom is perfect, His plans are higher, and His power is made strong in my weakness.
I belong to Him, and I live to glorify His holy name in all I do
I will worship the Lord my God and serve Him only, for His ways are righteous, His plans are perfect, and His purposes for me are far greater than anything I could devise. In Jesus’ Name.”

Key Supporting Scriptures:

“In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.” — Genesis 1:1
“You shall have no other gods before Me.” — Exodus 20:3
“You shall worship the Lord your God, and Him only you shall serve.” — Matthew 4:10“
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding.” — Proverbs 3:5
“For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,” — Isaiah 55:8
“Know that the Lord, He is God; it is He who has made us, and not we ourselves; we are His people and the sheep of His pasture.” – Psalm 100:3
“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.” — Philippians 2:3
“God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” — James 4:6

 

God or No God ? You Have Free Will, But There Are Consequences

Introduction

The question of whether God exists is the most profound decisions any person will ever make. We have free will to choose what to believe, yet that choice carries serious implications for our lives, ethics, and destiny. In this post, we’ll explore why this topic demands serious contemplation, the choices involved, the arguments and counterarguments from both sides, the ramifications of each option, and a practical process for arriving at a well-informed position. Counter to popular opinion belief in God does not require a leap of faith, God encourages us to explore this topic with the full commitment of our heart, to look at all the evidence with an open mind and sound logic. He tells us if we are willing to do that, we will reach the only rational conclusion.

Why Is It Important to Seriously Explore This Topic and Come to a Position?

The existence or non-existence of God touches every aspect of life—from the purpose and meaning of our life, the nature of morality,  and the eternal destiny of the soul. The bible states, “For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen” (Romans 1:20), suggesting that the divine is woven into the fabric of our existence. Moreover, credible apologists such as William Lane Craig and authors like C.S. Lewis have argued that believing in God provides a foundation for truth, ethics, and purpose. Neglecting to explore this topic may result in a superficial understanding of life’s ultimate questions, leaving one vulnerable to philosophical and existential pitfalls.

What Are the Choices?

At its core, the decision involves four main positions:

  1. Theism (God exists) – A divine Creator has established not only the origin of the universe but also moral law, purpose, and a plan for redemption.
  2. Atheism (No God exists) – There is no divine being, everything around us is the result of random natural variation and meaning and morality arise as human constructs rather than any transcendent source.
  3. Agnosticism (Uncertain or undecided) – The existence of God is unknown or unknowable, either due to lack of evidence or philosophical skepticism.
  4. Deism (A creator exists but is not personally involved) – The belief that God created the universe but does not intervene in human affairs, leaving natural laws to govern existence.

Each stance has significant implications for how one views love, truth, ethics, and destiny.

Common Arguments For The Existence of God?

  • Cosmological Argument (Uncaused Cause):

Everything that begins to exist has a cause outside of it. A chain of discoveries has lead scientists to believe the universe had a beginning in a big bang. The following is a summary of the key discoveries:

Einstein’s General Theory of Relativity (1915): Predicted an expanding or contracting universe, suggesting a beginning point.

Hubble’s Discovery (1929): Observed that galaxies are moving away from each other, confirming that the universe is expanding (redshift).

The Big Bang Theory (1940s-1960s): Provided a scientific model that describes the universe originating from a singularity, reinforcing the idea of a beginning.

Cosmic Microwave Background Radiation (1965): Discovered as remnant heat from the Big Bang, further validating a definite origin.

Second Law of Thermodynamics: Indicates that the universe is running out of usable energy, implying it cannot be eternal and must have had a starting point.

These discoveries support the premise that the universe had a finite beginning, necessitating an external cause with sufficient power to create what we see and to do it operating beyond space, time, and matter—attributes that align with a theistic God.

Counter: Critics argue that the concept of an uncaused cause may be logically inconsistent, questioning why the Creator is exempt from the laws governing causation. Who created God?

  • Teleological Argument (Design):

The complexity and order observed in the universe imply intelligent design. Below are the main types of evidence supporting this argument:

    • Fine-Tuning of the Universe – The precise values of fundamental physical constants (such as gravity, the speed of light, and the cosmological constant) are finely tuned for life to exist. Even slight variations would make life impossible, suggesting intentional calibration rather than chance.
      • Parameters governing the structure and expansion of the universe:
        • Cosmological Constant (Λ): A minuscule yet precise value that controls the universe’s expansion rate. A slightly larger or smaller value would lead to a runaway expansion or collapse.
        • Gravitational Constant (G): Determines the strength of gravity. A slight variation would make planet formation impossible or lead to a collapse of the universe.
        • Ratio of Electromagnetic to Gravitational Forces: Essential for star formation; if altered, molecules and atoms could not form stable structures.

        Physical Constants (Laws Governing Matter and Energy)

        These fundamental constants must be precisely set for a life-supporting universe:

        • Speed of Light (c): Governs the nature of space-time and energy transfer.
        • Planck’s Constant (h): Defines the energy levels of quantum mechanics, crucial for atomic stability.
        • Electron-to-Proton Mass Ratio: Determines chemical bonding and molecular formation.

        Atomic and Chemical Parameters (Building Blocks of Life)

        The fine-tuning of atomic forces allows for the existence of complex chemistry:

        • Strong Nuclear Force: Holds protons and neutrons together in atomic nuclei. If slightly weaker or stronger, no stable elements could form.
        • Weak Nuclear Force: Governs radioactive decay; crucial for elements like carbon and oxygen to form.
        • Carbon Formation (Triple-Alpha Process): The precise resonance of carbon-12 allows for the formation of life-essential elements in stars.

        Galactic and Stellar Parameters (Formation of Habitable Planets)

        These conditions allow for stable solar systems and Earth-like planets:

        • Type of Star (Sun-like Stars): Must have a stable energy output for billions of years.
        • Planetary Distance from Star: The “Goldilocks Zone” ensures liquid water can exist.
        • Galactic Habitable Zone: The solar system is positioned in a safe region of the Milky Way, avoiding radiation hazards.

Planetary and Environmental Parameters (Earth’s Uniqueness)

These specific conditions allow for the development and sustainability of life on earth:

        • Magnetic Field: Shields Earth from harmful solar radiation.
        • Oxygen Levels in Atmosphere: Optimized for complex life while preventing runaway combustion.
        • Plate Tectonics: Regulates carbon cycles and maintains planetary temperature stability.

This broad portfolio of precisely tuned parameters demonstrates an intricate balance required for life to exist. This does not suggest a random collection of processes.

    • Biological Complexity and Information in DNA – Living organisms exhibit intricate biological systems, from the eye’s optical precision to the interdependent structures in cells. The DNA code, containing complex and specified information, resembles a programmed language, implying an intelligent source.
    • Irreducible Complexity – Certain biological systems require all their parts to function, meaning they could not have evolved gradually. This suggests purposeful design rather than random mutations. Here are some of the most convincing examples of irreducible complexity:
      • Bacterial Flagellum – This microscopic, whip-like structure acts as a rotary motor, allowing bacteria like coli to move. It consists of about 40 protein parts, all of which must be in place for it to function. Removing any single component renders the flagellum useless, making stepwise evolution difficult to explain.
      • Blood Clotting Cascade – The clotting process involves a precise series of proteins and enzymes (such as fibrinogen and thrombin) that must work in sequence. If any part is missing or not regulated properly, blood either fails to clot (leading to excessive bleeding) or clots uncontrollably (causing lethal blockages).
      • The Eye – The human eye requires multiple interdependent components (lens, retina, optic nerve, and photoreceptors) to work together for vision. The absence of any one of these parts would make vision impossible, challenging the idea of a gradual, stepwise evolutionary process.
      • ATP Synthase – This enzyme complex is like a microscopic turbine in cells, producing ATP (energy) necessary for life. It consists of multiple working parts, including a rotor, stator, and catalytic units, all of which must function simultaneously for energy production.
      • Cilia and Intracellular Transport – Cilia are hair-like structures that move mucus and fluids in organisms. They depend on dynein motors and a complex transport system that, if missing any part, results in immobility and dysfunction.

These systems suggest a level of complexity that requires all components to be present and functional, aligning with the concept of intentional design.

    • Non-Random Patterns in Nature and Mathematics – The laws of physics and mathematical principles governing the universe exhibit remarkable order and elegance, hinting at a rational designer rather than chaotic randomness.

Here are a few specific examples of patterns in nature and mathematics:

      • The Fibonacci Sequence – This sequence (1, 1, 2, 3, 5, 8, 13, …) appears in various natural formations, such as the arrangement of leaves on stems, the branching of trees, and the spirals of shells and galaxies.
      • The Golden Ratio (φ ≈ 1.618) – Found in art, architecture, and nature, this ratio governs proportions in things like the Parthenon, sunflower seed arrangements, and even human facial symmetry.
      • Fractals – Repeating patterns at different scales can be seen in snowflakes, lightning bolts, ferns, and coastlines, demonstrating self-similarity in nature.
      • Symmetry in Biology – Many living organisms exhibit bilateral or radial symmetry, such as butterflies, starfish, and flowers, which contribute to structural efficiency and aesthetics.
      • Pi (π) in Natural Cycles – The ratio of a circle’s circumference to its diameter appears in planetary motion, wave patterns, and even in the structure of DNA.
    • Anthropic Principle ( Earth’s Compatibility) – The Earth’s conditions (distance from the Sun, atmosphere, water cycle, etc.) are finely tuned to support human life, making the likelihood of such conditions occurring by chance extremely low.
    • Human Consciousness and Rationality – The human ability to reason, create, and recognize beauty suggests a transcendent source rather than purely materialistic origins.This evidence collectively points to the conclusion that an intelligent designer is the most reasonable explanation for the universe’s complexity and order.Counter: Some posit that natural processes like evolution can account for complexity without invoking a designer.
  • Moral Argument:

    • Objective moral values exist and require a transcendent source. The bible teaches, “He has shown you, O man, what is good; and what does the LORD require of you but to do justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God?” (Micah 6:8).
      • Counter: Atheists suggest that morality can be explained through social contracts and evolutionary biology without a divine lawgiver.
  • Anthropological Argument:

    • The universal nature of religious belief across cultures suggests that humans are inherently wired for God. The bible states, “He has put eternity in their hearts” (Ecclesiastes 3:11) so that if there is a god, we should expect that to occur across cultures.
      • Counter: Some argue that religious beliefs arise from psychological and sociological factors rather than divine design.

What Are the Most Common Arguments Against Existence of God?

  • The Problem of Evil: The existence of suffering and evil seems incompatible with an all-powerful, all-loving God.
      • Counter: Theists respond with the Free Will Defense and the concept of a greater good emerging from suffering. Romans 8:28 (“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God”) suggests suffering may have a redemptive purpose.
  • Scientific Explanations: Advances in science provide naturalistic explanations for phenomena once attributed only to divine action.
      • Counter: Theists argue that science addresses the “how” of the universe while leaving the “why” unanswered. Also, objective review of the evidence refutes much of the popular scientific narrative about emergence of life and the creative power of evolution.  
  • Anthropological Argument (Counter): Religion is a product of human culture rather than divine reality.
      • Counter: The widespread nature of religious belief and experiences of the divine suggest an inherent connection between humanity and God. The pervasive and consistent nature of near death experiences when the material brain is unable to function suggests consciousness is not a natural material function and has a supernatural characteristic.

What Are the Consequences of Your Choice?

If You Choose to Believe in God

  • Spiritual Implications: Embracing God fosters a relationship with Him, leading to transformation and divine blessings (2 Corinthians 5:17).
  • Personal Transformation: Trusting in God allows Him to work in our lives, renewing our fallen nature and guiding into righteousness (Ezekiel 36:26).
  • Blessings in This Life: Faith in God brings inner peace, wisdom, provision, and purpose (Matthew 6:33).
  • Eternity With God: Jesus promises eternal life with him for those who believe. (John 3:16). If you were wrong and there really is no god, the worst case is you lived an earthly life trying to do good for a higher purpose. But if you chose not to believe and it turns out you were wrong, eternity is a pretty long time to suffer from that mistake.

If You Choose Not to Believe in God

  • Lack of Divine Guidance: Without trust in God, one may struggle with purpose and ultimate meaning.
  • Missed Blessings: Ignoring God or failing to trust Him limits His ability to work in one’s favor (Mark 6:5-6). Worshiping something other than our creator God exposes us to the devil who prowls around seeking whom he can destroy.
  • Moral and Existential Uncertainty: Without a higher moral authority, ethical decisions become subjective and potentially unstable.
  • Eternity Separated From God: If you are right and there is no God, your eternity will not matter.  You will be dead and buried and serve as worm food. If however you are wrong, and there is indeed a God who you will stand before on judgement day, your choice really does matter. If we choose to live life separate from God, He will grant you the opportunity to spend eternity separate from Him. Christian theology teaches that you will be cast into eternal suffering in hell if you do not accept Jesus offering of salvation.

Most Effective Process to Work Through This Decision

  1. Educate Yourself: Read the Gospels in the Bible ( Matthew, Mark, Luke, John) and reputable apologetic works.
  2. Analyze Arguments Critically: Evaluate both theistic and atheistic perspectives.
  3. Personal Reflection: Consider your own experiences and moral intuitions.
  4. Engage in Dialogue: Have conversations with individuals from different belief systems. Examine their evidence and test their logic.
  5. Pray or Meditate: Seek divine guidance through prayer and contemplation.
  6. Revisit and Revise: You should have a robust explanation and logic for your belief. It should be consistent and defendable and grow more convincing over time.

Most Useful Resources for Further Investigation

  • The Bible (for scriptural foundation)
  • Books:
    • Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis
    • The Reason for God by Timothy Keller
    • The Case for Christ by Lee Strobel
  • Debates & Lectures: William Lane Craig vs. leading atheists