Walk In The Spirit

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Walk in the Spirit and Do Not Fulfill the Lusts of the Flesh

Introduction

Gal 5:16 — “I say then: Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh.”

This is not a suggestion.
It is a governing principle of Christian living.

It does not say:   “Try harder not to sin.”

It says:  Walk in the Spirit — and the flesh loses power.

The emphasis is not on suppressing the flesh.
It is on living from the Spirit.

This distinction changes everything.

What Does “Walk in the Spirit” Mean?

To “walk” is a continuous fully engaged lifestyle.

It implies:

    • Direction

    • Movement

    • Habit

    • Ongoing dependence

Walking in the Spirit means:

    • Living under Christ’s lordship

    • Being led by the Spirit

    • Depending on His empowerment

    • Aligning thoughts, desires, and actions with Him

It is not mystical passivity.

It is responsive cooperation.

The Flesh vs The Spirit

Gal 5:17 — “For the flesh lusts against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; and these are contrary to one another…”

The flesh is not merely “bad behavior.”

It is the self-centered nature operating independently of God.

The Spirit is the indwelling presence of God producing:

    • Life

    • Peace

    • Love

    • Power

Rom 8:6 — “For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.”

The difference is source.

Flesh = self-sourced life.
Spirit = God-sourced life.

Why Is This So Important?

Because you cannot defeat the flesh by focusing on the flesh.

The flesh thrives on:

    • Self-effort

    • Control

    • Anxiety

    • Pride

    • Fear

The Spirit produces:

    • Love

    • Joy

    • Peace

    • Self-control

Gal 5:22–23 — “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control…”

The fruit is not self-generated.

It is Spirit-produced.

If we try to manufacture fruit, we revert to flesh.

Walking in the Spirit is the only sustainable path to holiness.

The Logic of Freedom

The verse does not say:

“Do not fulfill the lust of the flesh, and you will walk in the Spirit.”

It reverses it.

Walk in the Spirit → You will not fulfill the flesh.

Freedom is a byproduct of alignment.

This is center-out transformation.

How Do You Walk in the Spirit?

Walking in the Spirit begins at the core and flows outward.

1. Establish Lordship

Rom 10:9 — “Confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus…”

Walking in the Spirit begins with surrender.

Faith Declaration: “Jesus, You are Lord. My life is Yours.”

Without settled lordship, walking becomes selective obedience.

2. Align With God’s Will

Rom 8:14 — “As many as are led by the Spirit of God…”

Ask daily: “Father, what matters most to You today?”

State:  Your will be done today, not mine.

Alignment prevents drift into self-agenda.

3. Trust the Plan and Outcomes

Prov 3:5–6 — “Trust in the Lord with all your heart… He shall direct your paths.”

Control fuels the flesh.

Trust fuels the Spirit.

Release outcomes before they unfold.

4. Depend on His Power

Acts 1:8 — “You shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you.”

Walking in the Spirit requires conscious dependence.

Pray before difficult moments:

“Strengthen me through Your Spirit.”

5. Govern the Inner Life

2 Cor 10:5 — “Bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ.”

Before behavior comes thought.

Before thought comes orientation.

Capture lies early:

    • Fear

    • Offense

    • Pride

    • Envy

Replace with truth.

6. Pause and Respond in Love

Gal 5:22-23 – “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.”

The flesh reacts to protect.

The Spirit responds in love.

In tense moments:

    • Pause.
    • Ask: “What would love do?”
    • Respond accordingly.

7. Step Toward Others

Gal 5:13 — “Through love serve one another.”

Spirit-walking moves outward.

Isolation strengthens the flesh.
Engagement expresses the Spirit.

Serve someone intentionally.

How Do You Know If You Are Walking in the Spirit?

Ask the following diagnostic questions:

    • Who ruled my decisions today — me or Christ?

    • Did I trust outcomes or try to secure them?

    • Did I strive or depend?

    • Did I react defensively or respond in love?

    • Is fruit increasing over time?

The primary evidence is not perfection. It is trajectory.

2 Cor 3:18 — “Being transformed into the same image… by the Spirit of the Lord.”

Transformation over time confirms Spirit-walking.

What Walking in the Spirit Is Not

    • It is not emotional hype.

    • It is not personality type.

    • It is not external religiosity.

    • It is not behavior modification.

    • It is not suppressing desire.

It is:

    • New desire formation

    • Christ forming within

    • Spirit-enabled obedience

The Cooperative Pattern

Our part:

    • Submit

    • Trust

    • Depend

    • Obey

    • Guard the mind

    • Serve

His part:

    • Convict

    • Regenerate

    • Indwell

    • Lead

    • Empower

    • Produce fruit

    • Transform

Walking in the Spirit is cooperation with divine initiative.

The Long-Term Outcome

When you consistently walk in the Spirit:

    • Flesh loses influence

    • Fear loses grip

    • Love grows naturally

    • Peace stabilizes

    • Others see Christ

Matt 5:16 — “Let your light so shine before men…”

Walking in the Spirit results in radiating Christ.

Where to Learn More

For deeper teaching and structured frameworks, see:

From MyGodInMotion.org

    • Walk in the Light (Blog Post)
      • (Explores identity, truth alignment, and obedience patterns.)
    • Be Led By The Spirit (Blog Post)
      • (Expanded teaching on Spirit-leading, dependence, and empowerment.)
    • Take Thoughts Captive (Blog Post)
      • (Expanded teaching on Evil Spirit Strategies, Discernment, Resistence.)

    • Declarations (Index Page)

      • (Practical faith statements such as “I Submit Myself to Jesus as Lord” and “I Am Being Transformed by Grace.”)

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    • Bible Study Sessions (Index Page)

      • (Application-based teachings on walking in light and Spirit.)

Final Exhortation

Walking in the Spirit is not about trying to be spiritual.

It is about:

    • Yielding deeply.
    • Trusting fully.
    • Depending consciously.
    • Obeying promptly.

And letting the Spirit do what only He can do.

Gal 5:25 — “If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit.”

You already have His life.
Now walk in it.

Declare Jesus Lord Of Your Life

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Declare Jesus Lord Of Your Life And Get On The Right Track

Introduction

There is a profound difference between admiring Jesus, believing facts about Jesus, or even receiving benefits from Jesus — and declaring Him Lord.

Many want a Savior.
Far fewer want a Lord.

Yet Scripture presents salvation not merely as forgiveness, but as a transfer of rule.

This post will walk through:

    • What it means to declare Jesus Lord
    • Why it is essential
    • Why “believing as Savior” alone is not enough
    • How to submit
    • How to know if you have truly submitted to Jesus as Lord
    • Where to go deeper

The Big Story: Creation, Rebellion, Restoration

God Created What Was Good

“Then God said, ‘Let Us make man in Our image…’
…Then God saw everything that He had made, and indeed it was very good.” – Genesis 1:26–27, 31

Humanity was designed for life under God’s loving authority. 

Humanity Rebelled and Broke What Was Good

“Through one man sin entered the world, and death through sin…” – Romans 5:12

Sin is not merely moral failure.
It is rejection of God’s rule.

At its root: self-rule.

God Entered Creation As A Man To Restore It

“And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us…” – John 1:14

God did not abandon His creation.
He entered it — in Jesus Christ.

Jesus Fulfilled Scripture

“Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures… and that He rose again the third day according to the Scriptures.” – 1 Corinthians 15:3–4

His life, suffering, death, and resurrection were not accidental.
They were foretold and fulfilled.

Jesus Is Now Lord

“God also has highly exalted Him… that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord…” – Philippians 2:9–11

The resurrection was not merely victory over death. It was enthronement.

Jesus is not waiting to become Lord. He already is.

The question is: Have you aligned with that reality?

What Does It Mean to Declare Jesus Lord?

To declare Jesus Lord means:

    • You renounce self-governance and autonomy.
    • You transfer ultimate authority for your life from yourself to Christ.
    • You submit your will, plans, values, and identity to Him.
    • You align your life under His Word.

“If you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.” – Romans 10:9

Notice the order:

Confess Him as Lord.

Believe in the resurrection.

Lordship is not optional add-on theology. It is fundamental in salvation.

Why Believing in Jesus as “Savior” Is Not Enough

Many say: “I believe Jesus died for my sins.”

But Scripture warns directly that belief without submission is insufficient.

Even Demons Believe

“You believe that there is one God. You do well. Even the demons believe — and tremble!” – James 2:19

Mental agreement does not equal surrendered allegiance.

Jesus’ Own Warning – Obedience is necessary

“But why do you call Me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and not do the things which I say?” – Luke 6:46

Calling Him Lord without obedience is self-deception.

Savior Without Lordship?

Jesus does not offer a divided identity:

Savior from consequences

But not Lord over conduct

“God has made this Jesus… both Lord and Christ.” – Acts 2:36

He is both.

To receive Him truly is to receive Him wholly.

Why Is Lordship Essential

Because the root of our problem is not ignorance — it is self-rule.

Declaring Jesus Lord addresses:

    • Authority
    • Allegiance
    • Identity
    • Direction
    • Ownership

It restores:

    • Right order
    • Covenant loyalty
    • Proper governance of the heart

Salvation is not merely rescue from hell.
It is restoration of rightful rule in this life so it can carry on to the next.

How Do You Know If You Have Submitted?

Submission is not a feeling.
It is visible in trajectory.

Signs of Self as Lord

    • You determine truth by preference.
    • You justify disobedience.
    • You negotiate with Scripture.
    • You cling to control.
    • You resist correction.
    • You want forgiveness without transformation.

Signs Jesus Is Lord

    • You repent quickly.
    • You align decisions with Scripture.
    • You surrender outcomes to Him.
    • You desire obedience even when costly.
    • You yield your resources and future.
    • You hunger to know Him and walk with Him.

“It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me…” – Galatians 2:20

Lordship produces displacement of self at the center.

Self Test Comparison

You as Lord Jesus as Lord
My will be done Lord, Your will be done
I define truth Scripture defines truth
I control outcomes I trust His sovereignty
I protect myself first I love and serve others first
I seek comfort I pursue obedience
I manage my life I steward what belongs to Him
I justify sin I confess and turn from sin

Lordship is not perfection.
It is posture.

The Declaration That Changes Direction

Declaring Jesus Lord is saying:

    • I repent of self-rule.
    • I believe He rose from the dead.
    • I confess Him as Lord.
    • I submit my life under His authority.
    • I trust His finished work.
    • I yield my future to Him.

This is not performance-based salvation.
It is grace received through faith.

But grace never leaves the throne of your life unchanged.

Where to Learn More

Scripture to Study Deeply

Romans (especially chapters 6–8)

Colossians (Christ’s supremacy and lordship)

Philippians 2

John 14–17 (abiding and obedience)

James (faith that works)

Solid Teaching Resources

John Stott — Basic Christianity

R.C. Sproul — The Holiness of God

Dietrich Bonhoeffer — The Cost of Discipleship

Sinclair Ferguson — The Christian Life

John MacArthur — The Gospel According to Jesus

These works emphasize repentance, lordship, and authentic discipleship.

Final Word

Jesus is already Lord.

The question is not whether He holds authority.
The question is whether you have aligned your life under it.

Declare Him Lord.
Repent of self-rule.
Submit your life.
Get on the right track — not just forgiven, but rightly ordered.

And walk with Him.

Walk In The Light As He Was In The Light

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Walk In The Light As He Was In The Light

Introduction

We use the phrase “walk in the light” often, but rarely slow down to ask what it truly means.

Is it moral behavior? Religious devotion? Spiritual awareness?

Walking in the light is far deeper — it is seeing reality as revealed by Jesus and aligning our lives with that revealed truth.

Light is the truth and and knowledge of the truth which flows from God and produces goodness when applied. To walk in the light as Jesus was in the light means we accept what He revealed about God, about ourselves, about sin, about redemption, and about eternity — and we order our thinking, identity, priorities, and actions accordingly. In this study we will explore what walking in the light is, why it matters, how to practice it, how to know if you are doing it, and where to continue growing in it.

WHAT: What Does It Mean To Walk In The Light?

“This is the message which we have heard from Him and declare to you, that God is light and in Him is no darkness at all… But if we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin.”  — 1 John 1:5–7

Walking in the light means:

Seeing reality as revealed by Jesus and aligning our lives with that revealed reality.

Light is not merely moral behavior.

Light is many aspects of reality revealed through the life of Jesus:

    • God and his nature.
    • The spiritual realm.
    • Life after death.
    • Sin and Our Fallen nature.
    • Nature of Scripture.
    • God’s role in restoration of creation.
    • Jesus’ sacrificial love.
    • Jesus’ current position and authority.
    • God desires for repentance and restoration of all.

Darkness is not merely bad behavior.

Darkness is operating independently of revealed truth and suffering the consequences.

Walking in the light involves four movements:

    1. See Revealed Reality
    2. Embrace Revealed Truth
    3. Embrace New Identity & Purpose
    4. Operate in Alignment With That Reality

Lets take them one at a time

 1. See Reality As it Has Been Revealed To Us

Jesus revealed what is real:

“And beginning at Moses and all the Prophets, He expounded to them in all the Scriptures the things concerning Himself.”
— Luke 24:27

Light begins when we accept reality.

The following are true whether we chose to accept them or not:

      • God exists and He is holy, loving, and just.
      • The spiritual realm is real.
      • Evil is real and active.
      • There is life after death.
      • Humanity is fallen.
      • Sin originates in the heart.
      • Sin results in separation and death.
      • Scripture is God’s Word and cannot be broken.
      • Truth has power.
      • God entered creation to redeem it.
      • Jesus is God incarnate.
      • Jesus’ sacrifice satisfied justice.
      • Jesus is risen and ascended.
      • God desires all to reach repentance and restoration.

These are objective realities.

They are true independent of human opinion.

Light begins with revelation.

Light is reality as revealed by Christ.

Darkness is operating in denial, distortion, or ignorance of that reality.

You cannot walk in light until you first accept that what Jesus revealed is true.

2. Embrace the Truth — And How It Operates

Seeing is not enough.

Walking in the light requires embracing the truth — and how truth functions.

Truth is not passive. Truth has power.

“But He answered and said, ‘It is written, “Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.”’” — Matthew 4:4

The following are truths I Must Personally Accept and Align With

      • Scripture is authoritative over me.
      • I am fallen and need redemption.
      • I cannot save myself.
      • Self-centeredness is my root problem.
      • I must repent.
      • I must believe in Jesus as Lord.
      • Submission aligns me with the Father.
      • Authority flows through obedience.
      • Truth must be applied, not merely known.
      • I am born again in Christ.
      • I am a new creation.
      • I am declared righteous by grace.
      • I am raised and positioned with Christ.
      • My purpose is to bring God glory.
      • I must deny myself and follow Him.
      • I must live in self-sacrificial love.

Walking in the light means accepting how reality works.

Truth is not passive information. Truth is active.

When Jesus faced the adversary, He said:

“It is written…”

Truth has power when embraced and applied.

Walking in darkness is not simply immoral behavior — it is believing lies about how reality works.

Walking in light means:

“I accept reality as Jesus revealed — not how i see it”

3. Embrace Your New Identity and Purpose

When you repent and believe:

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.”
— 2 Corinthians 5:17

“And raised us up together, and made us sit together in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus.”
— Ephesians 2:6

Identity:

      • Born again.
      • Child of God.
      • Righteous in Christ.
      • Raised with Him to Heavenly Places.
      • Under delegated authority.

Purpose:

      • Know Him and Make Him Known
      • Bring glory to God in all you do.
      • Love as Christ loved.
      • Shine as beacon for others.
      • Be An Ambassador for Christ
      • Participate in His mission to draw all things under Christ.

4. Operate in Alignment With Truth of the Revealed Reality

Now we move from identity to practice.

Execution is living in alignment with revealed reality.

“Therefore submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.” — James 4:7

“Humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God…”  — 1 Peter 5:6 

Execution looks like:

      • Ongoing repentance (turning quickly).
      • Putting God first in priority.
      • Submitting your will daily. – His will not my will be done.
      • Denying self-centered agendas.
      • Renewing your mind to see things from god’s perspective
      • Seeing yourself as righteous in Christ.
      • Seeing others as lost children needing love.
      • Living self-sacrificial love.
      • Forgiving quickly.
      • Praying before acting.
      • Using Scripture against deception.
      • Speaking in faith under alignment.
      • Asking in Jesus’ name for the Father’s glory.
      • Trusting outcomes to God.

This is not technique. This is alignment.

When alignment is present: Grace flows.

When pride dominates: Resistance increases.

“God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” – James 4:6 

Grace does not increase when we submit. Resistance decreases.

Grace empowers obedience and power: 

WHY: Why Is Walking In The Light Important?

1. Fellowship depends on it.

“If we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another…”— 1 John 1:7

2. Cleansing flows in the light.

“…and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin.”— 1 John 1:7

3. Authority operates through alignment.

“All authority has been given to Me in heaven and on earth.” — Matthew 28:18

Submission precedes authority.

4. Light exposes darkness.

Walking in darkness leaves us vulnerable to deception, fear, striving, and control.

Walking in light produces peace, clarity, and fruit.

HOW: How Do You Walk In The Light Practically?

Start small.

Daily practices:

    • Begin with surrender:  “I submit myself to Jesus as Lord of my life”. – James 4:7
    • Yield your will: “Your will, not my will be done. – Luke 22:42
    • Seek wisdom before decisions. “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God…”— James 1:5
    • Pray before acting.
    • Renew your mind with Scripture: Daily reading. Verse of the day.
    • Replace lies with truth: Ask Jesus: “What lie is holding me back? What truth should replace it?”
    • Deny self-centered agendas: Ask Jesus, “What self-centered agenda am i holding? Then out it off, and put on Jesus”
    • Forgive quickly. – Think of an offense, And chose to forgive the offender and pray for them.
    • Find a good cause and donate something
    • Pray for someone to find Jesus…their heart become warm, their eyes become open, see the light, repent, and embrace Jesus.  
    • Be a bright light in this dark world – Smile, Be pleasant and encouraging.
    • Speak to problems in faith under alignment.
    • Seek God’s glory over recognition.
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Walking in light is practiced alignment.

HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE WALKING IN THE LIGHT?

Use this self-test, see which entry best fits your current situation:

 

Light / Alignment Darkness / Resistance
I submit outcomes to God. I must control outcomes.
I seek God’s glory. I seek recognition.
I forgive quickly. I replay offenses in my mind.
I confess and repent. I defend and justify my actions.
I depend on grace. I rely on my willpower.
I experience peace. I experience chronic friction, anxiety.

Indicators of walking in light:

    • Increasing humility
    • Faster repentance
    • Decreasing anxiety
    • Growing compassion
    • Greater spiritual clarity
    • Fruit beyond natural strength

“He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit…”— John 15:5

WHERE CAN I LEARN MORE?

Recommended Scripture:

John

1 John

Romans 6–8

Galatians 5

James 1 & 4

Explore on MyGodInMotion.org:

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I Submit Myself To God <Post-Discussion> <Declaration>  

Abide In Christ – The Path To The Life God Intended <Post-Discussion>

Invest Your Energy In The Word Of God <Post-Discussion>

Make God’s Word Com Alive In Your Flesh <Post-Discussion>

Deny Yourself and Pick Up Your Cross <Post-Discussion>

I have a New Identity In Christ <Post-Discussion>  <Declaration>

I have a New Purpose In Christ <Post-Discussion> <Declaration>

See Yourself As God Sees You <Post-Discussion>

See Others As God Sees Them <Post-Discussion>

Love Others As Jesus Loves You <Post-Discussion>

Forgive and Love Your Enemies <Post-Discussion>

HG68 – God’s Children Need help – Teach them how to walk in the light <Video>

YouTube: My God In Motion   – Playlists: Bible Studies, Testimonies, Lessons Learned.

Call To Action

Walking in the light is not about trying harder.

It is about:

    • Seeing reality.
    • Embracing truth.
    • Living from new identity.
    • Operating in alignment.

Light exposes darkness.
Alignment releases grace.
Grace produces fruit.

Walk in the light as Jesus was in the light.

Abide in Christ

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Abide in Jesus: The Path to the Life God Intended

Introduction

Many believers sincerely try to live for God but quietly struggle with effort, fatigue, and inconsistency. Jesus calls us to something deeper, simpler, and far more powerful: to abide in Him.

Abiding is not an advanced spiritual technique. It is the intended Christian life — where God supplies what we need to live our lives and bring Him glory.

Three Ways People Commonly Live

1) Living for Self

Many people live primarily for themselves—their needs, safety, desires, and control. Life at this stage is driven by self-preservation and limited perspective.

“But the natural man does not receive the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; nor can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.” (1 Corinthians 2:14)

2) Living FOR God

Many believers make real progress here. They sincerely try to obey God, serve Him, avoid sin, and do what is right. This stage is good and necessary — but if we stop here, faith can quietly become effort-based.

“Having begun in the Spirit, are you now being made perfect by the flesh?” (Galatians 3:3)

3) Living FROM God

The real breakthrough comes when believers become connected to God through the Holy Spirit and begin to live from His life, not just for His approval.

“He who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him.” (1 Corinthians 6:17)

What Does It Mean to Abide in Jesus?

To abide means to remain, stay, or continue—to live in ongoing connection and dependence. Abiding is relational, not mechanical; ongoing, not occasional.

“Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in Me.” (John 15:4–5)

Why Abiding Is So Important

Abiding is not optional because fruit is not optional. God never intended that we strain our way into holiness or maturity. He intended life to flow from relationship.

“It is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure.” (Philippians 2:13)

What Breaks Abiding: Grieving and Resisting the Holy Spirit

Grieving the Holy Spirit

To grieve the Holy Spirit is to cause relational sorrow by ignoring conviction, withdrawing from correction, or choosing self-protection over trust.

“And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.” (Ephesians 4:30)

Resisting the Holy Spirit

To resist the Holy Spirit is active refusal—deflecting truth, rationalizing disobedience, or rejecting God’s leading.

“You always resist the Holy Spirit.” (Acts 7:51)

How Do We Abide in Jesus?

We are going to walk Abiding in two phases – First Get Connected — Then Remain Connected

But first a bit of history lesson to put this in context

The story of abiding begins in the garden.

Part 1: Getting Connected — Restoring What Was Lost

In the beginning, humanity lived from God:

God was the source of life

Identity was received, not achieved

Righteousness was unbroken fellowship

Obedience flowed from trust

Adam rebelled, Broke the rules, but also severed the connection.

“Your iniquities have separated you from your God.” — Isaiah 59:2

God came into creation as a human – Jesus  – to restore our union with God.

Shedding His innocent blood as the sacrifice form mankind restored Righteousness (Right Standing)

Connection cannot be rebuilt through effort.  It is restored through grace.

“For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.”
— 2 Corinthians 5:21

Righteousness is not behavior modification. It is restored standing—access to God without fear.

You cannot abide while trying to earn acceptance.

Denying Self as our Lord or Source

Self-denial is often misunderstood.
Jesus is not calling us to self-hatred, but to do a source transfer.

“If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.”
— Luke 9:23

To deny self means:

      • Relinquishing self-rule
      • Rejecting self as life-source
      • Letting go of independence from God

This is the death of self-sufficiency, not the loss of personhood.

Assuming a New Identity (Union Restored)

Connection is not theoretical—it is ontological – it is the very nature of being.

“He who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him.”   — 1 Corinthians 6:17

Through Christ:

      • You are not visiting God
      • You are joined to Him
      • Life flows from union, not proximity

Abiding begins when we accept the identity of one who is already connected.

Returning to the Original Design (Redeemed)

We are called to return to the original design, and restore what was lost through separation.

“Return to Me, and I will return to you.” — Malachi 3:7

This is a return to:

      • God as source
      • Life by trust
      • Openness instead of hiding
      • Love instead of fear

This is Eden restored through Christ, not innocence regained by effort.

Part 2: Staying Connected — What It Means to Remain (Abide)

Once connection is restored, we are called to shift from entering to remaining.

“Abide in Me, and I in you.” — John 15:4 

Remaining is not passive—it is relational maintenance.

Yielding to the Spirit (Ongoing Dependence)

Abiding requires continuous yielding.

“Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh.” — Galatians 5:16 

Yielding means:

      • Letting God lead reactions
      • Surrendering control in real time
      • Choosing dependence over impulse

Yielding keeps the connection active.

Trusting God as Source (Daily Reliance)

Trust is the posture of abiding.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart… In all your ways acknowledge Him.” — Proverbs 3:5–6 

When trust fades:

      • Control increases
      • Anxiety rises
      • Self-effort returns

Abiding flourishes where trust is renewed daily.

Walking in the Light (Relational Transparency)

Abiding requires openness, not perfection.

“If we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship…” — 1 John 1:7

Walking in the light means:

      • No hiding
      • No image management
      • No private compartmentalization

Transparency preserves fellowship.

Walking in Love (The Evidence of Remaining)

Love is not the entry requirement—it is the evidence.

“He who abides in love abides in God, and God in him.”— 1 John 4:16 

When we are abiding:

      • Love flows more freely
      • Forgiveness comes faster
      • Others are no longer threats

Love is what abiding produces, not what it demands.

We get connected by grace—restored righteousness, surrendered self-rule, and new identity in Christ.
We stay connected by abiding—yielding, trusting, walking in the light, and walking in love.

Abiding is living today from what Christ already restored.

How Can I Tell If I’m Abiding?

The following table can help us discern where we are on our journey, and if stuck here the breakdown is actually happening.

How To Use This Table

Read each row prayerfully.

Mark the column that best reflects your current lived reality, not your intentions.

If issues cluster in the left half, focus on restoration.

If issues cluster in the right half, focus on abiding practices.

Diagnosis is not condemnation—it reveals where grace is needed next.

Phase 1: Getting Connected / Reconnected With The Father Through Christ

Disconnected From God –  Living from Self Restored Connection – Living from God
I approach God guarded, ashamed, or defensive I relate to God from right standing through Jesus’ blood
I try to earn peace with God through works/performance I see righteousness as received, not earned
I rely on control, competence, or willpower I deny self as a source, and trust God for destination and path
My identity rises and falls with my situation My identity is rooted in union with Christ
I avoid God when I fail I come to God freely in good times and bad
I subtly add self-effort to the cross I trust Christ’s finished work

Phase 2: Staying Connected (Abiding / Remaining)

Drifting – Grieving or Resisting Abiding – Remaining in Christ
I delay, justify, or avoid conviction I yield quickly when conviction comes
I default to self-management I trust God as the source in all daily moments
I compartmentalize or hide I walk openly in the light
Obedience feels heavy or resisted Obedience feels natural, aligned, not forced
Irritability and defensiveness increase Love flows more freely toward others
I stay distant when disconnected I return quickly when I drift
God feels distant or abstract I am Friends With God,He Is With Me

Work on getting solid with getting restored:  righteousness, union, identity, finished work.

Then practice remaining/abiding: yielding, walking in the light, trusting, returning quickly.

Where to Learn More

BibleProject – https://bibleproject.com/
Rick Renner – Sparkling Gems – https://renner.org/product-category/sparkling-gems-reg/
Bible.com / YouVersion – https://www.bible.com/
BibleGateway NKJV – https://www.biblegateway.com/versions/New-King-James-Version-NKJV-Bible/

A Call to Action

Abiding is not something you achieve—it is something you return to. Release control, reconnect to the source, and remain.

Invest in The Word Of God

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Why Invest Your Energy in the Word of God?

Introduction

Many people own a Bible. Some read it occasionally. Fewer invest real time, attention, and energy into understanding it. Yet Scripture consistently presents the Word of God not as optional encouragement, but as essential nourishment for life with God.
Before talking about prayer, transformation, or spiritual growth, we must answer a more basic question: Why does the Word of God matter enough to invest in daily?

What Is the Word of God?

The Bible is not merely a religious text, a history book, or a collection of moral teachings. It is God’s self-revelation—who He is, what He is like, how reality works, and who we are in relation to Him. Through Scripture, God teaches, corrects, warns, comforts, and trains us to live in truth.

“All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness.”  – 2 Timothy 3:16

In other words: God’s Word is not only meant to be read—it is meant to shape the way we see, think, choose, and live.

Why Is the Word of God So Important?

1) Because life is shaped by what we trust

Everyone lives by some “word”—cultural narratives, personal experiences, fear-based assumptions, voices from the past, or inner self-talk. If God’s Word is not shaping our thinking, something else will.

“There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death.” – Proverbs 14:12

Scripture gives us a stable reference point outside ourselves—truth that does not change with mood, pressure, or circumstance.

2) Because the Word feeds the inner life

Just as the body needs daily food, the soul needs daily truth. When we neglect the Word, we don’t become neutral—we drift. Fear grows louder, self-reliance increases, and perspective narrows.

“Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.” – Matthew 4:4

3) Because knowing God comes through His Word

Many people know about God—stories, concepts, doctrines, opinions. Scripture calls us to know Him personally. And Jesus defines eternal life in relational terms.

“And this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent.” – John 17:3

God uses His Word to reveal His character, clarify His intentions, correct our assumptions, and build trust. You cannot grow close to someone you do not listen to.

4) Because transformation depends on truth

Real change does not start with behavior—it starts with renewed thinking. The Word exposes lies we didn’t know we believed and replaces them with truth. Without Scripture, “growth” often collapses into self-effort, religious performance, or cyclical relapse.

“And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind…” – Romans 12:2

How Should I Engage with the Word of God?

The goal is not speed, volume, or religious performance. The goal is understanding, receptivity, and relationship—so God’s truth can actually enter and reshape your inner life.

A simple, effective approach

• Pray briefly before you read: ask God to open your understanding and soften your heart.
• Read slowly enough to understand what is being said (even if that means fewer verses).
• Ask three questions: What does this reveal about God? What does it reveal about people (including me)? What response is appropriate?
• Write one sentence of application: a truth to believe, a lie to reject, a choice to make, or a habit to begin.
• Return daily. Consistency beats intensity.

“Open my eyes, that I may see wondrous things from Your law.” (Psalm 119:18)

Setting Healthy Expectations: How Much Time and Energy?

Scripture does not frame God’s Word as a once-a-week touchpoint. It calls us to repeated, attentive engagement—so that truth stays close enough to shape our decisions and responses in real time.
A helpful anchor is Proverbs 4:20–23, which calls us to give attention to God’s words, incline our ears to them, keep them before our eyes, and store them in the midst of our hearts. That picture sets a practical expectation: God’s Word should be close enough to influence what we notice, what we listen to, and what we carry internally throughout the day.

How Do I Know If I’m Getting What I’m Supposed to Out of It?

This is a critical question—and Scripture gives clear indicators.

Signs the Word is working in you

• You gain clarity and discernment (you see situations differently).
• Conviction increases without condemnation (you’re corrected, but not crushed).
• Trust in God grows; fear loses some of its control.
• You become quicker to obey, repent, forgive, and tell the truth.
• Your relationships show more patience, humility, and love over time.

“The entrance of Your words gives light.” (Psalm 119:130)

Signs you are only reading superficially

• Knowledge increases without life change.
• You feel religiously informed but not spiritually strengthened.
• You use Scripture mainly to win arguments or justify yourself.
• You stay defensive when challenged or corrected.
• You repeat cycles (fear, anger, lust, pride, despair) with little internal shift.

“But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.” (James 1:22)

A practical self-check

• What truth did I receive this week that changed a decision or response?
• Where did I notice conviction—and did I respond with repentance or avoidance?
• Did my love for God and people grow, even slightly?
• What verse or passage stayed with me beyond the reading session?
• If I stopped reading for 30 days, would anything in my daily life actually change?

Where to Learn More

Trusted, Practical Resources

BibleProject (big-picture understanding of Scripture): https://bibleproject.com/

Rick Renner – Sparkling Gems devotionals: https://renner.org/product-category/sparkling-gems-reg/

Bible.com / YouVersion reading plans: https://www.bible.com/

BibleGateway NKJV access: https://www.biblegateway.com/versions/New-King-James-Version-NKJV-Bible/

Final Encouragement

Investing energy in the Word of God is not about becoming religious. It is about learning how life actually works, coming to know God as He truly is, and allowing Him to shape you from the inside out.

“Your words were found, and I ate them, and Your word was to me the joy and rejoicing of my heart.” – Jeremiah 15:16

Start where you are. Read with openness. Return daily.

Over time, the Word moves from being something you visit to something you carry—and that is where formation becomes real.

Reach Out To The Lost

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Reach Out To The Lost – 3 Ways You Can Help Them Find Jesus

Introduction

Many believers assume that reaching the lost is either for specialists, pastors, or “bold personalities.” Scripture teaches the opposite. Jesus designed His body of followers so that ordinary believers—empowered by the Holy Spirit—play essential roles in helping lost people encounter Him.

This post is about possibility and appropriateness:

Reaching out is possible.
Reaching out is appropriate.
And God intends to work through you to find the lost.

What Does It Mean to Be “Lost”?

Biblically, being lost is not merely ignorance or bad behavior—it is separation from God, resulting in confusion about identity, purpose, and life direction.

“For the Son of Man has come to seek and to save that which was lost.” – Luke 19:10

Those who are lost may look successful, moral, or religious—but they are disconnected from the life of God.

“Having their understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God…” – Ephesians 4:18

Lost people do not need arguments first—they need light, love, and invitation.

Who Is Called to Reach Out to the Lost?

Jesus did not reserve this mission for a few. He gave it to all who follow Him.

“Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature.” – Mark 16:15

“You are the body of Christ, and members individually. – 1 Corinthians 12:27

Every believer is a carrier of God’s presence, placed strategically among family, friends, coworkers, and neighbors.

Why Is It Important That Believers Do This?

Because many are genuinely lost

“Wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and there are many who go in by it.” – Matthew 7:13

Because God works through people

“How shall they hear without a preacher?” – Romans 10:14

Because time matters

“Now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.” – 2 Corinthians 6:2

God’s design is not passive spectatorship—it is active participation.

How Are We Supernaturally Enabled to Do This?

Reaching the lost is not powered by personality, training, or courage alone—it is empowered by the Holy Spirit.

“You shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be witnesses to Me…” – Acts 1:8

“Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit.” – Zechariah 4:6

We are not responsible for direct outcomes—only to engage out of obedience.

“I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the increase.” – 1 Corinthians 3:6

Three Practical Ways You Can Help the Lost Find Jesus

1. Share Your Testimony with Friends

Provide evidence through lived experience

God uses personal testimony to bypass intellectual defenses and speak directly to the heart.

“Go home to your friends, and tell them what great things the Lord has done for you.” – Mark 5:19

“They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony.” – Revelation 12:11

Best practices

    • Share what God has actually done, not what you wish had happened
    • Keep it relational, not performative
    • Focus on change, not perfection

Your story may be the first seed God uses.

2. Pray for the Sick

Demonstrate God’s compassion and power

Jesus consistently met physical needs while opening spiritual doors.

“God anointed Jesus of Nazareth… who went about doing good and healing all who were oppressed by the devil.” – Acts 10:38

He then extended this ministry to believers.

“He who believes in Me, the works that I do he will do also.” – John 14:12

“They will lay hands on the sick, and they will recover.” – Mark 16:18

Best practices

    • Notice A work of the devil – Illness, injury
    • Ask permission: “Would you mind if I prayed for you?”
    • Summarize the gospel in 3 lines
      • God created us and put us in the perfect Garden
      • Man broke it by rebelling
      • God came into creation as Jesus to restore it
      • He suffered and paid the price for out rebellion, by his stripes we are healed.
      • He promises those who believe will lay hands and the sick will recover 
    • Keep prayers short and simple and Christ-centered
      • Speak healing in Jesus name. AMEN
    • Leave results to God—your obedience matters

Prayer in compassion often softens hearts and makes them receptive to God’s word.

3. Evangelize with Truth and Love

Clearly explain the gospel and invite response

Evangelism is not manipulation—it is loving clarity.

“Knowing, therefore, the terror of the Lord, we persuade men.” – 2 Corinthians 5:11

“Faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.” – Romans 10:17

The gospel message is simple:

    • God created us for relationship
    • Man rebelled and Sin separated us from Him
    • Jesus came to restore what was broken
    • We are invited to repent, believe, and follow

Best practices

    • Be patient and gentle
    • Let conviction belong to the Holy Spirit
    • Speak truth without quarrelling

“The Lord’s servant must not quarrel but be gentle to all… correcting with gentleness.” – 2 Timothy 2:24–26

A Critical Perspective: Don’t Expect Immediate Results

Scripture repeatedly reminds us that God owns the outcome.

“So then neither he who plants is anything, nor he who waters, but God who gives the increase.” – 1 Corinthians 3:7

Your role may be:

    • Planting
    • Watering
    • Encouraging
    • Walking alongside

All are equally valuable in God’s kingdom economy.

Where to Learn More

Learning to Reach the Lost Effectively is a valuable pursuit

These Scripture tracks are arranged intentionally: why we are called, how God reaches people, and how we participate wisely and fruitfully.

1. God’s Heart for the Lost (Why This Matters)

Understand God’s motivation before focusing on methods.

Luke 15 — The lost sheep, coin, and son

Ezekiel 18:23; 33:11 — God takes no pleasure in the death of the wicked

2 Peter 3:9 — God desires all to come to repentance

1 Timothy 2:3–4 — God desires all to be saved

Outcome: You stop seeing evangelism as duty and start seeing it as alignment with God’s heart.

2. Our Commission and Identity (Who Is Called)

See clearly that reaching the lost is for all believers, not specialists.

Matthew 28:18–20 — The Great Commission

Mark 16:15 — Go to every creature

Acts 1:8 — Empowered witnesses

2 Corinthians 5:18–20 — Ambassadors of reconciliation

Outcome: You recognize reaching the lost as part of your identity in Christ, not an optional role.

3. Jesus’ Model of Reaching People (How God Does It)

Learn method from Jesus before adopting techniques.

John 4 — Samaritan woman (relational + truth)

Luke 19:1–10 — Zacchaeus (presence before correction)

Mark 1:14–15 — Repent and believe

Matthew 9:35–38 — Compassion precedes harvest

Outcome: You learn to engage hearts, not just deliver information.

4. The Gospel Message Clearly Explained (What to Say)

Gain clarity and confidence in the core message.

Romans 1–5 — Sin, law, grace, justification

John 3 — New birth explained

1 Corinthians 15:1–4 — The gospel defined

Acts 2; 17 — Gospel preached to different audiences

Outcome: You can explain the gospel simply, accurately, and confidently.

5. The Role of the Law, Conscience, and the Spirit (Why People Respond or Resist)

Understand what you do—and what God does.

Romans 2–3; 7 — Law as mirror

John 16:8 — Spirit convicts

2 Corinthians 4:3–6 — Spiritual blindness and illumination

Outcome: You stop striving and start partnering with the Holy Spirit.

6. Wisdom, Posture, and Patience in Evangelism (How to Do It Well)

Learn tone, timing, and restraint.

2 Timothy 2:24–26 — Gentleness and repentance

Colossians 4:5–6 — Speech seasoned with grace

1 Peter 3:15 — Defense with meekness

Outcome: You become effective without being abrasive.

7. Trusting God for Results (Avoiding Burnout and Fear)

Release outcomes to God.

1 Corinthians 3:6–7 — God gives the increase

Isaiah 55:10–11 — God’s Word accomplishes its purpose

Galatians 6:9 — Do not grow weary

Outcome: You gain peace, courage, and perseverance.

Suggested Learning Path (Simple & Effective)

If someone asks, “Where should I start?”:

Luke 15

Matthew 28

John 4

Romans 3–5

2 Timothy 2:24–26

1 Corinthians 3:6–7

When we understand God’s heart, our calling, Jesus’ model, and the Spirit’s role, reaching the lost becomes natural, loving, and effective.

Read these write ups with links to more specifics:

Testimony: Be A Witness To Others Of God’s Work In You <Blog Post>

Evangelism: Share God’s Good News With Others <Blog Post>

Apologetics: Make Clear and Rational Arguments To Enable Good Decisions <Blog Post>

Call to Action

You do not need to become someone else to reach the lost.
You need to walk with Jesus, recognize opportunities, and respond in love.

“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.” – Matthew 5:16

Be available. Be faithful. Let God move through You

Testimony – Be A Witness To Others Of God’s Work In You

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Testimony: Be A Witness To Others Of God’s Work In You

Introduction

Your Personal Story Is One of God’s Most Powerful Tools

Many believers underestimate their testimony because they believe it must be dramatic, polished, or theologically sophisticated. Scripture teaches the opposite: testimony is simple, personal evidence that God is real, active, and compassionate.

God repeatedly uses testimony to open hearts, silence resistance, and invite faith—often before arguments or explanations ever work.

What Is a Testimony?

A testimony is bearing witness to what God has done in your life—how He got your attention, how He met you, and how He has changed you over time.

“But you shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be witnesses to Me…” – Acts 1:8

A witness does not speculate or debate—they report what they have seen and experienced.

Jesus Himself defined testimony this way:

“Go home to your friends, and tell them what great things the Lord has done for you, and how He has had compassion on you.” – Mark 5:19

Why Is Testimony Critical?

1. It Provides Personal Evidence

Testimony bypasses intellectual defenses because it is relational and experiential.

“Come and hear, all you who fear God, and I will declare what He has done for my soul.” – Psalm 66:16

People may argue ideas—but they listen to lived experience.

2. It Overcomes Spiritual Resistance

Scripture explicitly links testimony to spiritual breakthrough.

“And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony…” – Revelation 12:11

Testimony exposes the lie that God is distant, indifferent, or unreal.

3. It Makes Faith Accessible

Testimony shows that following Jesus Christ is not theoretical—it is possible and appropriate in real life.

“Let the redeemed of the LORD say so, whom He has redeemed from the hand of the enemy.” – Psalm 107:2

Silence hides evidence God intends others to see.

How Do You Share Your Testimony Effectively

Your testimony does not need to be long or dramatic. It should be honest, humble, and focused on Christ’s work.

A Simple Biblical Framework

Before – What life was like or what was missing

Encounter – How God got your attention, what did God do for you, in you, or through you.

After – What has changed (direction, identity, purpose, clarity, healing, hope, love, peace, joy), and what impact has it had

“Always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you, with meekness and fear.” – 1 Peter 3:15

A Simple Direct Learning Path

Read Mark 5:19 and John 9 to see biblical examples of testimony

Journal with God to identify and write a story to share:  Before → Encounter → After

Share your story once with a trusted believer

Pray for one opportunity to share it with someone else – naturally

Do It.

Reflect on what you learned through that process

Repeat.

God does not need your testimony to be impressive—only truthful and offered in love.

He is far more committed to reaching the lost than you are.

Best Practices:

Speak naturally, in your own words, not formally or religiously

Focus on God’s work in you or through you, not your own achievement

Describe in summary terms what was going on, what was the challenge or opportunity you were facing

What did you do to open yourself and invite God to help you?

If you saw Jesus, or sensed the Holy Spirit presence with you, what was He doing?

If you sensed God speaking to you, what message did you get, and how did it come to you?

If you got connected to a piece of scripture, which verse was it, and how did it help you?

What changed in you through this encounter? Thoughts? Emotions? Attitude? Perspective? Outlook?

What did you learn from the experience?  About God? About Me? About Life? About what to do or how to do it?  

Share in context of supporting and encouraging others, not confrontation and challenge

Don’t try to convince someone of anything, just share the evidence of what happened, Leave conviction to the Holy Spirit

Testimony is invitation, not a threat or pressure.

Common Pitfalls to Avoid

Over-polishing  – trying to sound impressive

Oversharing – details that distract from the work Christ is doing

Arguing instead of witnessing to what happened

Waiting for “the perfect moment” – and never sharing your story

God works through availability, not perfection.

How Can I Tell If I’m Doing It Well?

Ask these questions to see how you are doing:

Am I pointing people to what God has done, not how good I am?

Do people ask follow-up questions out of curiosity?

Am I sharing from love, not obligation or fear?

Am I comfortable letting God use imperfect words from an imperfect human?

If your story is honest and centered on Christ, God can use it.

“My speech and my preaching were not with persuasive words of human wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power.” -1 Corinthians 2:4

Where to Learn More / How To Strengthen This Practice

1. Study biblical testimonies

– Paul’s encounter with Jesus and conversion in Acts 22

– The demoniac healed in Mark 5

– The blind man healed in John 9

– What are they asked to do? What did they emphasize in thier story? How long is their testimony?

2. Learn by Watching and Listening to Others

Hearing others share testimony reshapes what feels possible and appropriate.

What to Look For

Ordinary lives, not celebrity conversions

Honest struggles, not sanitized stories

Emphasis on God’s faithfulness, not human strength

Pay attention to:

How they start

How much detail they include

Where they stop

This builds a mental template you can adapt naturally.

Here are some examples of testimonies to review

A collection of powerful testimonies – < How Others Found Faith In God – 17 Videos >

My personal testimonies  – < 19 Videos >

3. Learn What Stories To Capture Through Reflection and Journaling

Many believers struggle to share testimony because they haven’t slowed down enough to recognize they have a testimony.

Practical Journaling Exercise: 

Pray For Wisdom: “Lord, Help me know what stories are worth sharing with others.”

Ask God these questions and write down His answers:

How did God first get my attention?

What events or revelations made me decide to take Him seriously?

What did God rescue me from?

Where have I seen answered prayers?

Where have I seen God work in wonderous ways?  people? places? events? opportunities? outcomes?

How has my relationship with God changed over time?

How have I been changed over time? thinking? emotions? motives? attitude? behaviors?

“I will remember the works of the LORD; surely I will remember Your wonders of old.” – Psalm 77:11

Reflection turns memory into clarity.

4. Learn What Elements To Include in Your Story Through Reflection and Journalling 

Pray For wisdom: “Lord, which story shall we work up to be shared?

Listen:  He will draw your attention to one particular story… write down an identifier / title

Pray for wisdom: “Lord, which aspects of this story are important to capture and share? 

Listen: He will remind you of the situation, the set up, what happened, and the effects…..write them down

You are welcome to use this template if it helps you with some structure and flow <Template>

5. Learn To Share Your Story Through Safe Practice in Community

Adults learn by doing. Confidence grows fastest in low-risk environments.

Best Contexts

Small groups or home Bible studies

Trusted friends or family

Mentorship or discipleship relationships

Practice sharing your testimony, first target 2–3 minutes, then try to condense it down to 30 seconds. Short testimonies are often the most effective.

“Let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works.” – Hebrews 10:24

5. Learn to Share Live On-Demand by Walking with the Holy Spirit

Ultimately, testimony is not a technique—it is Spirit-led expression.

“For it is not you who speak, but the Spirit of your Father who speaks in you.” – Matthew 10:20

As you walk with God:

Pray for wisdom:  “Lord, help me know who to engage, what to share, and how to share it to be most helpful to them”

He will remind you of which stories are important to share.

Pray for wisdom:  “Lord, how should i share these stories?”

He will prompt you to develop them in writing or just to have them ready

Ptay for wisdom: “Lord who shall i share these with?” Listen as you walk

He will point out someone who needs the encouragement of your story

Engage them in a spirit of compassion and support, when the opportunity emerges, share your story

God will soften their heart before your words are spoken

Thank God for the opportunity to share

Obedience sharpens discernment.

Call to Action

Your testimony is already forming, whether you share it or not. God invites you to make it visible.

“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.” – Matthew 5:16

This week:

Pray and write down a story of Gods work in or through you: Before, Encounter, After

Pray for an opportunity to share your story

Share it. 

Plant the seed. God will handle the growth.

Evangelism – Share God’s Good News With Others

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Evangelism – Share God’s Good News In An Effective Way

Introduction

Evangelism is often misunderstood. Some see it as confrontational, awkward, or reserved for specialists. Biblically, evangelism is loving clarity—helping people understand their condition, helping their conscience engage truth, and then pointing them to Jesus as the only sufficient rescue.

This post tries to answer five questions:

What is evangelism, why does it matter, how to do it well, what to avoid, and where to learn more.

What Is Evangelism?

Evangelism is clearly and lovingly communicating the gospel so a person can make an informed, eternal decision.

“Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature.” – Mark 16:15

Biblically, evangelism includes:

    • Proclaiming God’s truth
    • Awakening moral awareness
    • Pointing to Christ as Savior and Lord
    • Inviting repentance and faith

Evangelism is not manipulation, debate, or pressure—it is truth presented with compassion.

Why Is Evangelism Critical?

1. Many People Are Truly Lost

Lost does not mean ignorant—it means living separated from God.

“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” – Romans 3:23

“Wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction.” – Matthew 7:13

Ignoring this reality is not loving—it is negligent.

2. Because the Gospel Is God’s Chosen Means

God saves through hearing, not assumption.

“How shall they believe in Him of whom they have not heard?” – Romans 10:14

“Faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.” – Romans 10:17

3. Because Love Warns Before It Comforts

Fear is not the end goal — but fear builds urgency which is necessary to move someone into action.

“Knowing, therefore, the terror of the Lord, we persuade men.” – 2 Corinthians 5:11

People will not value a cure if they do not believe they are seriously sick

How Do We Evangelize Effectively?

Scripture and experience show a repeatable, conscience-aware flow.

Step 1: Engage the Conscience Using God’s Moral Law

The Law functions as a mirror, not a cure.

“By the law is the knowledge of sin.” – Romans 3:20

“I would not have known sin except through the law.” – Romans 7:7

People must see themselves truthfully before grace becomes good news.

Step 2: Allow the Holy Spirit to Convict

Conviction is not your job.

“When He has come, He will convict the world of sin.” – John 16:8

Your role is clarity. God’s role is conviction.

Step 3: Present the Gospel Clearly and Simply

Once guilt is acknowledged, grace becomes powerful.

“But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” – Romans 5:8

“Repent therefore and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out.” – Acts 3:19

The gospel is not:

      • “Try harder”
      • “Join a church”
      • “Clean yourself up”

It is:

      • Repent
      • Believe
      • Follow Jesus

Step 4: Invite — Without Pressure

God respects the will.

“Choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve.” – Joshua 24:15

Evangelism aims for clarity, not coercion.

Best Practices for Evangelism

Be calm, respectful, and patient

Ask questions that expose beliefs gently

Use Scripture, not opinion

Let silence do work

Trust God with outcomes

“The Lord’s servant must not quarrel but be gentle to all… correcting with gentleness.” – 2 Timothy 2:24–26

Common Failure Modes to Avoid

Failure Mode Effect Why It Fails
Avoid discussion of sin & judgment No Fear/Reverence, No Urgency To Change Grace loses meaning
Arguing intellectually More Arguments / Frustration Bypasses conscience
Being quarrelsome Hardens Heart / Alienate Not Demonstrating Love
Rushing decisions False Convert Heart Not Convicted
Taking rejection personally Stop Evangelizing God gives the increase

Best In Class Examples to Observe

The following are excellent examples of effective real world evangelism from Ray Comfort (Living Waters)

Cassidy 

Natalie

Mario 

Gabriel

Gabby

Wendy and Mia 

Angelina and Alberta 

These examples show:

Calm tone

Respect for the listener

Law -> Fear ->  Gospel flow

Relatability… you are a guilty sinner just like the rest of us

Personal compassion for the participant… I care for you and don’t want to see you in hell

Dependence on the Spirit

Where to Learn More

Scripture to Study

Romans 1–3

Luke 18 (Pharisee & Tax Collector)

John 3

Acts 17

2 Corinthians 5

Published Material

Way of the Master — <Book> – foundational, practical, biblical

Online Materials

Living Waters – <Website> — training, videos, courses

–  <YouTube>  – Testimonies

Overcome Fear of Evangelism <Video>

Two Keys to Reaching Those You Love <Video> 

Call to Action

Evangelism is not about becoming someone else—it is about walking in obedience with love and truth.

“He who wins souls is wise.” – Proverbs 11:30

This week:

Watch one example

Practice the law–gospel flow privately

Pray for one divine appointment

Speak when prompted

Plant. Water. Trust God for the increase.

Apologetics – Provide Sound Logic and Reasons For Faith

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Apologetics: Provide Sound Logic and Reasons For Faith

Introduction

Apologetics is not about winning arguments—it is about removing unnecessary barriers so people can take God and the gospel seriously. It helps honest seekers see that faith in God and Christianity is reasonable, coherent, and grounded in reality.

“Always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you, with meekness and fear.”
1 Peter 3:15

What Is Apologetics?

Apologetics comes from the Greek apologia, meaning a reasoned defense.

Biblically, it means:

    • Answering sincere questions
    • Addressing doubts honestly
    • Clarifying misunderstandings
    • Showing that belief in God is not blind or irrational

Apologetics does not replace testimony, prayer, or evangelism—it supports them.

“Come now, and let us reason together,” says the LORD. – Isaiah 1:18

Why Apologetics Matters

1. Some People Are Intellectually Blocked

Many are not rejecting God—they believe belief is unreasonable.

“The simple believes every word, but the prudent considers well his steps.” – Proverbs 14:15

Apologetics helps people realize:

“This question deserves investigation.”

2. God Invites the Mind, Not Just the Heart

Christian faith is truth-based, not wish-based.

“You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.” – Matthew 22:37

3. Apologetics Builds Confidence in Believers

Many Christians are silent not because they don’t care—but because they fear they can’t answer objections.

“My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.” – Hosea 4:6

Apologetics replaces fear with calm clarity.

The Best Arguments for the Existence of God

These arguments are cumulative—no single one proves God, but together they form a powerful case.

1. Cosmological Argument (First Cause)

Claim: Everything that begins to exist has a cause. The universe began to exist. Therefore, the universe has a cause beyond itself.

Why it matters: Modern cosmology confirms a beginning (Big Bang)

The cause must be timeless, spaceless, immaterial, powerful

“In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.” – Genesis 1:1

2. Teleological Argument (Design & Fine-Tuning)

Claim:  The universe is exquisitely fine-tuned for life—by odds far beyond chance.

Why it matters: Physical constants must be precise

Design implies purpose and intelligence

“The heavens declare the glory of God.” – Psalm 19:1

3. Intelligent Design (Information in DNA)

Claim: DNA contains complex, specified information—like software code.

Why it matters: Random processes destroy information

Information always comes from a mind

“I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” – Psalm 139:14

4. Moral Argument (Objective Morality)

Claim: Objective moral values exist (e.g., rape, genocide are always wrong).
Objective morality requires a transcendent moral lawgiver.

Why it matters: Moral outrage makes sense only if there is a God, and a moral law giver

“They show the work of the law written in their hearts.” – Romans 2:15

5. Experiential Argument

Claim: Millions report coherent, life-altering experiences of God.

Why it matters: Experience counts as evidence (as in science, law, history)

“Taste and see that the LORD is good.” – Psalm 34:8

+1. Prudential Argument (Pascal’s Wager — Rational Risk Assessment)

Claim: Every person is already making a bet about God—belief, disbelief, or indifference.
If God exists, the outcome is eternal; if He does not, the outcome is finite.
Rational decision-making favors the option with asymmetric risk.

Why it matters:  Belief risks finite cost (time, pride, lifestyle adjustment)

Unbelief risks infinite loss (eternal separation from God)

If eternity is even possible, seeking God is the wisest course

Clarification: Pascal’s Wager is not a line of evidence, it is a rationalization of what to do while evaluating evidence. It calls for seeking, not pretending belief.

“I have set before you life and death… therefore choose life.” – Deuteronomy 30:19)

Common Arguments Against God — and Best Responses

Objection: “Science has replaced God / Science Conflicts With God”

Response: Science explains how things work – not why anything exists or why it matters.

Response: Science was founded by Christians to study God through His creation. The more we observe the details of creation, the more we see a need for an intelligent creator. Only followers of modern “materialism” who categorically ignore a creator as a possibility cast science against God.  

“Through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God.”  – Hebrews 11:3

Objection: “If an all powerful benevolent God exists, why is there evil?”

Response: Recognizing Evil presupposes an objective good. You only know good and evil because there is a God

Response: God —supporting God’s existence rather than disproving it.

“Shall the Judge of all the earth not do right?” – Genesis 18:25

Objection: “God is just a psychological crutch”

Response: A belief being comforting does not make it false—truth often is comforting.

“The LORD is near to those who have a broken heart.” – Psalm 34:18

The Best Arguments for Christianity

Belief in God is one step. Christianity makes historical claims that are worth examining.

1. The Historical Jesus

Jesus is among the best-attested figures of antiquity.

“Jesus of Nazareth, a Man attested by God to you by miracles.”  – Acts 2:22

2. The Resurrection

The resurrection explains:

      • The empty tomb
      • The disciples’ transformation
      • The birth of the Church

“If Christ is not risen, your faith is futile.”  – 1 Corinthians 15:17

3. Fulfilled Prophecy

Dozens of Old Testament prophecies converge in Jesus.

“He was wounded for our transgressions.” – Isaiah 53:5

4. Transformational Power

Christianity doesn’t just explain reality—it changes lives.

“If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.” – 2 Corinthians 5:17

Common Arguments Against Christianity — and Responses

Objection: “The Bible is full of contradictions”

Response: Apparent contradictions dissolve with context, genre, and textual study.

“The sum of Your word is truth.” – Psalm 119:160

Objection: “Jesus is just one way among many”

Response:  Jesus uniquely claimed divine authority and resurrection.

“I am the way, the truth, and the life.” – John 14:6

Objection: “Christians are hypocrites”

Response: Christianity is true or false based on Christ — not His imperfect followers.

“Follow me, as I follow Christ.” – 1 Corinthians 11:1

Where to Learn More

Leading Christian Apologists

Frank Turek

Cross Examined ( Website)  (YouTube Channel)

I Don’t Have Enough Faith to Be an Atheist (Book) (Video)

William Lane Craig

Logical arguments for God (Video)

Lee Strobel

The Case for a Creator (Book) (Video)

Evidence For The Existence Of God ( Part 1) (Part 2)

Is God Real (Book) (Video)

Stephen Meyer / Michael Behe / John Lennox

Design, DNA, mathematics, science & faith  (Video)

My Write-ups

Reach Out To the Lost – 3 Ways You Can Help Others Find Jesus ( Blog Post )

Testimony – Be A Witness To Others Of God’s Work In You ( Blog Post )

Evangelism – What, Why, and How ( Blog Post )

Apologetics – What is it, and What Can We Learn From It ( Blog Post )

Why Should An Intelligent Person Believe In God?  ( Blog Post )

My Curated Learning Playlists

How Did We Get Here?

Big Bang 1 – Something From Nothing ( 7 Videos )

Big Bang 2 – Life From Non Life ( 6 Videos )

Big Bang 2 – Microbiology – Simple Life Is Not So Simple ( 9 Videos )

Big Bang 2 – DNA Is Information ( 5 Videos )

Big Bang 3 – Biodiversity – Random Or Designed ( 27 Videos )

Big Bang 3 – Paleontology – What Does the Fossil Record Show ( 6 Videos )

Big Bang 4 – Physiological – Consciousness ( 7 Videos )

What Does Science Say About How We Got Here ( 25 Videos)

Is the Bible Fact or Fiction?

What can we learn from Archeology? (55 Videos)
Is The Bible Credible, Why Trust It (9 Videos)

What Evidence Is There For Jesus Death and Resurrection (6 Videos)

How to Use Apologetics Wisely

Lead with questions, not speeches

Address objections respectfully

Know when to stop and let the Spirit work

Remember: apologetics prepares the ground—it does not save

“Some plant, some water, but God gives the increase.” – 1 Corinthians 3:6

Call to Action

If eternity is even possible, then seeking truth is the wisest decision a human can make.

“You will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart.” – Jeremiah 29:13

Start small:

Watch one talk

Learn one argument

Answer one honest question

Truth is not afraid of investigation.

 

Become Friends With Jesus and Be Transformed

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Become Friends With Jesus – And Be Transformed

Introduction

Many people have learned a lot ABOUT Jesus; Far fewer have gotten to KNOW Him.  Knowing Jesus is a really big deal because knowing Him IS eternal life. And if He doesn’t know you He will not answer your knock at the pearly gates.

You get to know someone when you spent time with them.  The more time you spend, the more you learn about them as a person, you understand their nature. You talk to them about their life experiences, you listen to their stories and begin to understand what makes them tick, what is important to them, and what they are trying to accomplish.  The more things you participate in together the more you learn about their skills and capabilities. Over time you learn to trust each other and work together to get things done. 

It is the same with Jesus: When you spend time alone with Him you get to know Him and better understand Him. When you get to know Him you can’t help but be drawn to Him by His acts of sacrificial love, and be positively influenced by His wisdom and guidance. When you have walked with Him through issues in your life, you learn to trust Him to be there for you as a valuable partner. The more time you spend, the more you see Him as a role model to emulate and trust Him as a partner to help you. The more you trust Him and apply His input, the more you become like Him. Becoming like Him enables you to be bold on judgement day.

“…we may have boldness in the day of judgment; because as He (Jesus) is, so are we in this world.”  – 1 John 4:17

Jesus did not invite you into a religion of distance. He invited you into fellowship and friendship.  Friendship is where transformation happens. When you know Jesus personally, grace stops being a concept and becomes like a river: a living flow of relationship, identity, power, and love.

“I have called you friends.” — John 15:15

Friendship with Jesus is not sentimental language. It is covenant reality: shared life, shared purpose, and shared nature forming inside you.

Why Fellowship With Jesus Is Essential

Knowing Jesus is a really big deal for many reasons. We will start with eternity, and then come back to the process of our spiritual journey here.  

Eternity/Heaven:

Let’s start with the end in mind:  If we know Jesus, we know God the Father and Eternal Life comes by knowing both of them.

“If you had known Me, you would have known My Father also; and from now on you know Him and have seen Him.” – John 14:7

“And this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent.” – John 17:3

Jesus tells us point blank that many very religious people will call out His name at the pearly gates but they will not get in because He does not know them.

“Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven… Many will say to Me in that day, ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?’ And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!” – Matthew 7:21-23

Him knowing you is not exactly the same as you knowing Him, but I submit to you that becoming friends with him on a personal level will result in both you knowing Him, and Him knowing you which is what He is telling us to do. 

The Spiritual Journey Here and Now

Knowing Jesus is critical for your spiritual journey.  If you don’t establish fellowship, Christianity drifts into one of the many traps.

Your inner soul builds structure, logic and reasoning to deal with life here and now and how we fit into eternity.

The basic high level structures include: 

    • Center / Lordship – Who or what sits at the center?
    • Identity – Who am I?
    • Worth / Value – Why do I matter?
    • Motivation – What drives my choices?
    • Purpose / Direction – What am I living for?
    • Behavior / Practices – How I live day to day?

If you establish a true partnership with God at the center,  your structures will build in the right sequence and alignment and move you in the right direction.

If you don’t put God into the true center, your self-centered inner nature will fill in the other structures to serve its needs, the intended structures becomes corrupted, the flow will be distorted and create problems.

 

Level When God Is at the Center When Self Is at the Center
Center / Lordship God Himself (relationship, trust, love) Self (control, fear, self-protection)
Identity Born Again, New Creation “In Christ” Built from behavior, role, or comparison
Worth / Value Received (beloved, righteous by grace) Earned, defended, to build up self
Motivation Love, gratitude, trust Fear, pride, guilt, approval to protect self
Purpose Reflect Christ, love others, bear fruit Self-preservation or self-validation
Behavior Obedience flows naturally to serve Religious activity or moral effort to justify decisions

When you understand the differences you will find that in the God centered flow – Grace flows smoothly down the structure. Our on effort is minimal because the alignment is correct.

In the self centered flow, The person must manufacture the structures that should have flowed in from God, and expend energy to maintain them.

This situation plays out in religious pursuits as well.  If our religious journey is not centered on a relationship with Jesus we will manufacture our  own structure, be prone to a corruption, distort the intended flow, and create problems.

 

Failure Mode Inner Structure Corrupted Problem Caused Key Verse
Fear-Based Obedience Center / Lordship God is related to through fear rather than trust;

obedience becomes self-protective

 “Fear involves torment” — 1 John 4:18
Performance-Based Identity Identity Self is defined by achievement or failure instead of union with Christ “Seeking to establish their own righteousness” — Romans 10:3
Religious Pride Worth / Value Value is established through knowledge or superiority rather than received love “Knowledge puffs up” — 1 Corinthians 8:1
Legalism Motivation Rules replace love;

Obedience becomes burdensome and joyless

 “Bind heavy burdens” — Matthew 23:4
Religiosity Purpose / Direction Activity replaces fruitfulness;

Rituals and motion continues but growth stops

 “You have a name that you are alive, but you are dead” — Revelation 3:1
Moralism Behavior – Disconnected from Identity External behavior is managed while the heart remains unchanged “Form of godliness… denying its power” — 2 Timothy 3:5
Hypocrisy Behavior – Defending Identity/Worth  Projecting perfect image to cover insecurity;

Double life develops

 “Whitewashed tombs” — Matthew 23:27

These failure modes occur at the individual level and can impact your journey, they happen within key folks in individual churches and can significantly color the personality of that church,  and these failure modes shaped the journey of the founding fathers of many of the denomination we see today. 

The solution is always the same,  fellowship with Jesus.  

Friendship with Jesus restores the structure from the center outward:

    • Fellowship restores Lordship (trust replaces fear)
    • Union restores Identity (“in Christ”)
    • Grace restores Worth (received, not proven)
    • Love restores Motivation
    • Abiding restores Purpose (fruit, not motion)
    • Transformation restores Behavior naturally

“Abide in Me… he bears much fruit.” — John 15:5 (NKJV)

Fellowship is where knowledge becomes applied to real life. It’s where grace becomes tangible.

“Our fellowship is with… Jesus Christ.” — 1 John 1:3

Fellowship is also where darkness loses its leverage—because intimacy with Jesus puts everything into the light.

“…God is light and in Him is no darkness at all” — 1 John 1:5

What Does It Mean to Become Friends With Jesus?

Biblically, friendship is not casual proximity; it is entering into a beneficial relationship with aligned hearts.

Friendship with Jesus means:

    • Access: coming to Him one-on-one without hiding or bargaining
    • Abiding: remaining connected in an ongoing way, not just visiting occasionally
    • Listening: Actively seeking His input, Quieting the worldly noise and tuning to hear His input and guidance
    • Hearing: Understanding and letting His Word shape your inner thoughts and emotions
    • Alignment: choosing His will over self-centered motives and agendas in your life
    • Obedience from love: Responding to His sacrificial love, not to earn His love, but because you trust Him

“You are My friends if you do whatever I command you.” – John 15:14

That “if” is not a threat; it’s a definition. You will know you have achieved Friendship with Jesus when you choose to surrender yourself and trust Him in real life situations.

How We Are Changed by Knowing Jesus

Transformation is often misunderstood. Many people try to change behavior first as an act of obedience, they never address the core desires that drive behavior and either continue to struggle to resist and constrain their undesired behaviors or become frustrated and give up and declare sin inevitable. 

Scripture reveals the process necessary to get at the root of the issue in our inner nature. When we embrace Jesus’ finished work on the cross, we are born again and receive a new identity, when we embrace that new identity it produces new desires, and new desires produce new behaviors.  

This is why friendship with Jesus is transformative. A real active relationship keeps us anchored in who He is, what He has already done, and what He promises to do in you and through you, rather than what we are trying to do ourselves.

“If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation…” – 2 Corinthians 5:17

The transformation process has a clear flow: 

Jesus Finished Work → New Identity → Act In Faith → Receive Grace → Become Love

Let’s follow it step by step

1. Jesus Finished the Work — Transformation Begins With What Is Already Done

Before anything can change in you, something had to be settled for you.

Jesus did not die to give you a second chance at self-improvement. He died to end one life and begin another. At the cross, sin was dealt with, He paid the price for sin by allowing His body to be broken.  Through His innocent blood we are now reconciled with the Father. He came to restore what was lost through Adam, and His last words on the cross declared that He had completed that assignment.

“It is finished.”  – John 19:30

This matters because unfinished work produces striving, but finished work produces rest and trust. If you believe the work is incomplete, you will try to add your effort to it. If you believe it is finished, you will learn to receive what has been done and respond.

Transformation never flows from trying to finish what Jesus already completed. It flows from agreeing with Him.

2. The Old Identity Can Not Be Improved Or Managed, It Must Be Crucified and Buried

We are never told to fix, discipline, or rehabilitate the “old man”. It must be denied, cut off, crucified, buried, and put away.

“Knowing this, that our old man was crucified with Him…” –  Romans 6:6

This is where many believers struggle. We intellectually agree with receiving forgiveness but emotionally continue to identify with our old self—its failures, wounds, habits, and fears. As long as we do that, we keep trying to manage what God tells us to put to death.

Crucifixion means to cut off and kill our old self-centered motives. We must intentionally remove their authority in our life.

Burial means to lose access to them and their associated baggage, to put old patterns and behaviors behind us.

“We were buried with Him through baptism into death…”  – Romans 6:4

Putting off the old man is not pretending you don’t feel temptation; it is refusing to identify with it. You are no longer obligated to live from what Christ crucified.

3. We Are Raised Into a New Identity — We Are Not Trying to Create or Become One

The Christian life does not begin with “do better.” It begins with “you are raised with Christ.”

“Just as Christ was raised… even so we also should walk in newness of life.” –  Romans 6:4

Resurrection is not just a future promise—it is a present identity. You are not becoming righteous someday; you are learning to stand in and live from a position of righteousness already given to you.

“He made Him… to be sin for us… that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.” – 2 Corinthians 5:21

This is a critical piece of the transformation puzzle: You need to understand that your righteousness is already paid for, all you need to do is stand in it. If you believe in Jesus and His work on the cross to restore you, you are born again into a new identity and can move forward in union with the Father covered by Jesus’ innocent blood.

4. Choosing to Put Off and Put On Is An Act of Faith  – It Makes Room For Grace

Once identity is clear, Scripture gives us a practical daily response for transformation:

“Put off… the old man.”
“Put on the new man.” – Ephesians 4:22–24

This is not behavior modification. This is a conscious and purposeful discission to agree and stand in faith.

“Putting off” is agreeing that Jesus paid the price for sin on the cross and that sin no longer defines you.

“Putting on” is choosing to live from a resurrection identity — born again, a new creaiton, innocent under Jesus blood.

We must act in Faith, speaking our intention to put off and put on,  then grace flows in to make the change – wisdom and power.

“Work out your own salvation… for it is God who works in you…” –  Philippians 2:12–13

When you choose patience instead of anger, humility instead of pride, love instead of self-protection, you are not manufacturing virtue—you are accessing grace already provided.

5. Grace Produces Transformation

Grace is divine empowerment to live differently.

“The grace of God… teaches us…” – Titus 2:11–12

Grace trains us away from self-centered love and into Christlike love.

As we focus on our new purpose – to bring glory to God in all we do,  Grace teaches us and empowers us to be transformed and become  prepared to serve the kingdom.

6. Love Is the Fruit, Not the Goal

Over time, something remarkable happens: desires change. What once felt costly begins to feel natural. What once required discipline begins to feel free.

This is how you know real transformation is happening:

“The love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit…” – Romans 5:5

Love becomes the evidence of friendship with Jesus—not because you are trying to be loving, but because His life is expressing itself through you.

Why This Works

Finished work removes striving

Crucifixion/Burial ends old identity

Resurrection establishes new identity

Faith agrees with truth before feelings

Grace supplies power

Love emerges as fruit

This is why friendship with Jesus transforms you. You are not managing sin; you are living from union.

“Christ in you, the hope of glory.” – Colossians 1:27

How To: The Heavy-Lifting Power of Communion

Engage the ritual process of communion to achieve fellowship and rapid transformation

If you want a simple, repeatable pathway that forms real friendship with Jesus and drives real change, make this your center:

      • Read Scripture relationally through the cross/resurrection lens
      • Take communion intentionally (even at reverently at home)
      • Put off / put on by faith in His finished work
      • Let grace produce love as fruit

1) Read Scripture Relationally (Cross + Resurrection Questions)

When you read, don’t only ask “what does this mean?” Ask “what does Jesus want to form in me?”

Use these questions every time:

What am I called to crucify? (what must die?)

What am I called to bury and put off? (what must no longer be carried?)

What am I called to put on by grace? (what must live?)

What am I being raised into—today—through faith?

“…If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me” — Luke 9:23
“Be renewed… in your mind.” 

“…put off, concerning your former conduct, the old man which grows corrupt according to the deceitful lusts, and be renewed in the spirit of your mind”— Ephesians 4:22-23

2) Communion: Active Participation in His Finished Work

Communion is where truth becomes embodied faith—gratitude, identity, and grace all in one moment.

“Communion of the body…” — 1 Corinthians 10:16

“New covenant… in My blood.” — Luke 22:20 

Bread — Thanking Him for His Finished Work in His Body

“Jesus, thank You for Your finished work on the cross.
Thank You for submitting Your body to that abuse—bearing my sins on Your back.
By Your stripes I am healed.
I choose to follow you: My old man with its sinful desires is hereby crucified with You.
I put off the old self—self-centered love, fear, pride, lust, control, and unbelief.
I no longer identify with sin and my old ways – I bury them in the grave with you.”

“Bore our sins… in His body.” — 1 Peter 2:24
“…By whose stripes I am healed” — 1 Peter 2:24

Cup — Thanking Him for His Finished Work in His Blood

“Jesus, Thank You for living a sinless life and sacrificing that life to restore me.
Your blood speaks better things for me—so I humbly stand under it.
Forgiven and righteous by Your finished work.
I stand in righteousness, covered by Your innocent blood—
forgiven, holy and blameless in the Father’s eyes.
I put on the new man by grace and will walk in love.”

“Speaks better things…” — Hebrews 12:24 
“Holy and blameless…” — Colossians 1:22 
“Righteousness… of God.” — 2 Corinthians 5:21

Other Best Practices

1) Make This a Recurring Rhythm, Not a Reaction

Don’t wait for crisis. Build friendship through consistency.

“Abide in Me.” — John 15:4

Practice: a simple daily pattern: Scripture → Communion posture → Put off/put on choices.

2) Put Off / Put On With Specificity

Vague repentance produces vague change. Make it concrete.

Put off (examples): self-pity, offense, control, lust, harshness, fear, people-pleasing.
Put on (examples): humility, forgiveness, courage, purity, gentleness, patience, truth.

“Put on… tender mercies.” — Colossians 3:12

3) Obey From Identity, Not for Identity

You don’t obey to become loved—you obey because you are loved.

“We love… because…” — 1 John 4:19

Practice: when tempted, say: “That isn’t who I am anymore.” Then act accordingly.

4) Let “Love” Be the Measure of Friendship

Friendship with Jesus will produce love—first in motives, then in actions.

“Love one another.” — John 13:34

5) Keep Fellowship Clean (No Hiding)

When you miss it, return quickly—don’t spiral into shame.

“Draw near…” — James 4:8

Do I Know Jesus as a Friend?

Use this series of questions to diagnose your relationship — not to condemn yourself.

Relationship Signals

Do I talk with Jesus consistently, or only in crisis?

Do I quiet myself and listen for His input, or do i just beg for blessings?

Do I read Scripture to meet Him and get to know Him, or just to collect facts?

Do I experience conviction that leads to change, or do I feel shame that leads to hiding?

Do I raise up Jesus work on the cross and take communion with gratitude? + a new identity? + faith?

Do I practice put off / put on every day?

Do I see increasing love, humility, peace, patience as I move forward month over month?

Warning Signs

My faith is mostly concepts and ideas with little fruit

Obedience feels like pressure, not a pursuit from my heart in response to God’s love

Jesus is distant, way up in heaven somewhere (Rather than always present right here with me) 

I am working hard to improve myself (rather than submitting myself to Jesus)  

I default to self-centered love (self-protection, self-justification)

I avoid Jesus when I fail instead of running to Him

“He who says, “I know Him,” and does not keep His commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him.” — 1 John 2:4 (NKJV)

Where to Learn More

Scripture Study Tracks

Friendship / Abiding

John 14–17 

Union with Christ: crucify / bury / raised

Romans 6–8

Colossians 2–3

Galatians 2–5

Putting off / putting on

Ephesians 4–6

Colossians 3

Communion

Luke 22

1 Corinthians 10–11

Hebrews 12

Excellent Preacher/Teacher Videos

The Power of Communion — Dan Mohler

The Finished Work of Christ — Dan Mohler

Faith and the Finished Work of Christ — Dan Mohler

The ONLY Way to Become LOVE — Dan Mohler

Identity Crash Course — Dan Mohler

Identity 101 Playlist (multi-part)

Suggested Topics to Search/Study

“union with Christ”

“righteousness by faith”

“renewing the mind”

“abiding and fruit”

“communion and covenant”

Call to Action

Don’t try to be “spiritual.” You’re being invited into friendship with the One who finished the work.

Start small, but start today:

Read a short passage (John 15, Romans 6, Colossians 3).

Ask the crucify/bury/raise questions.

Take communion intentionally—bread and cup—with gratitude and identity.

Put off one specific old pattern. Put on one specific expression of love.

Repeat the same thing tomorrow.

Over time, you won’t just try to be loving — you will become love, because Jesus is forming Himself in you.

“To them God willed to make known what are the riches of the glory of this mystery among the Gentiles: which is Christ in you, the hope of glory.” — Colossians 1:27

God Is Trustworthy

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God Is Worthy Of Our Trust – Just Look At Jesus

Why Trust Is the Battle Line

Most people do not reject God because they lack information—they resist because they do not trust Him.

At the moment of decision, the question is rarely “Is God real?” but “Is God good, and will He come through?”

Jesus did not merely tell us to trust God. He demonstrated—publicly, consistently, and at personal cost—that God is worthy of trust.

Trust is not blind optimism. Biblical trust is confidence in God’s character that produces obedience—even when outcomes are not yet visible.

The life of Jesus gives us tangible reasons to place that confidence.

“He who has seen Me has seen the Father.”  – John 14:9

What It Means to Trust God

To trust God is to treat His character as reliable and His words as true. It means choosing alignment with Him when your feelings, circumstances, or fears argue the opposite. Trust shows up in decisions: what you obey, what you surrender, what you refuse, and what you keep doing when you do not yet see results.

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.” – Proverbs 3:5–6

Jesus Shows Us God Is Worthy of Our Trust

Below is a summary of the various ways Jesus demonstrates that God is trustworthy. 

How Verse
He reveals the Father’s heart and character John 14:9
He tells the truth—even when it costs Him John 18:37
His life matches His words (integrity) John 8:46
He keeps His promises (fulfilled words) John 14:29
He uses power to serve, not exploit Matthew 20:28
He loves sacrificially—even while we were sinners Romans 5:8
He submits fully to the Father’s will Luke 22:42
He entrusts Himself to God through suffering and death Luke 23:46
God vindicates Him through resurrection power Acts 2:32
His way produces fruit that confirms reality Matthew 7:20

A Deeper Look, One By One

1) Jesus reveals the Father’s heart

If your picture of God is distorted, trust will always be fragile. Jesus answers this by making God visible. He does not merely speak about God—He embodies God’s heart toward people. To look at Jesus is to see what the Father is like: compassionate, truthful, holy, patient, and willing to rescue.

“He who has seen Me has seen the Father.” – John 14:9

“The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” – John 10:10

2) Jesus bears witness to the truth—even under pressure

Trustworthy leaders do not manipulate. Jesus consistently speaks truth even when it provokes opposition. He refuses to soften reality to win approval. This matters because trust grows where truth is steady. Jesus’ leadership is not based on persuasion tactics; it is anchored in reality.

“For this cause I was born, and for this cause I have come into the world, that I should bear witness to the truth.” – John 18:37

“Heaven and earth will pass away, but My words will by no means pass away.” – Matthew 24:35

3) His life matches His words (integrity without hypocrisy)

Jesus’ credibility is not theoretical. He teaches humility and lives humbly. He teaches enemy-love and practices it. He teaches prayer and depends on the Father. Scripture records Jesus inviting scrutiny: if He were merely a religious teacher with hidden corruption, that invitation would collapse. Integrity makes trust rational.

“Which of you convicts Me of sin?” – John 8:46

“Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that you should follow His steps: “Who committed no sin, Nor was deceit found in His mouth.”” – 1 Peter 2:21–22

4) He keeps His promises (fulfilled words)

Jesus repeatedly told His disciples what would happen before it happened—so that fulfilled events would not merely astonish them, but strengthen faith. Trust deepens when words prove reliable over time. Jesus does not ask for blind faith; He provides grounds for belief by speaking clearly and then fulfilling what He said.

“And now I have told you before it comes, that when it does come to pass, you may believe.” – John 14:29

“The Son of Man must suffer many things, and be rejected by the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and after three days rise again.” – Mark 8:31

5) He uses power to serve, not exploit

Power often creates distrust because power is frequently used for self-interest. Jesus is different. He heals, restores, delivers, feeds, teaches, and protects—and then refuses to leverage His power for selfish gain or public spectacle. This is trustworthy authority: strength governed by love.

“The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.” – Matthew 20:28

“A bruised reed He will not break, And smoking flax He will not quench; He will bring forth justice for truth.” – Isaiah 42:3

6) He loves sacrificially—even when we are undeserving

Jesus’ love is not sentimental; it is costly. He moves toward sinners, betrayers, and enemies—not because they earned it, but because God’s love initiates rescue. This is decisive evidence that God is not waiting to punish you for weakness; He is calling you to come home. When love is proven under pressure, trust becomes possible.

“But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” – Romans 5:8

“Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.” – John 15:13

7) He submits fully to the Father’s will

Trust increases when you see that Jesus is not self-serving. He repeatedly declares that He came to do the Father’s will—not to build His own agenda. In the garden, when obedience became extremely costly, He chose submission rather than escape. That submission is a window into God’s reliability: the Father is not leading Jesus into meaningless suffering, but into redeeming purpose.

“Not My will, but Yours, be done.” – Luke 22:42

“For I have come down from heaven, not to do My own will, but the will of Him who sent Me.” – John 6:38

8) He entrusts Himself to God through suffering and death

Trust is proven when circumstances are worst. Jesus entrusts Himself to the Father in the moment when the path looks most costly. This shows that faith is not an accessory; it is the backbone of obedience. Jesus trusts the Father beyond pain, shame, and death.

“Father, into Your hands I commit My spirit.” – Luke 23:46

“Who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame…” – Hebrews 12:2

9) God vindicates Jesus through resurrection power

The resurrection is God’s public confirmation that Jesus is who He claimed to be and that His promises are reliable. If Jesus is risen, then His words about sin, forgiveness, eternity, and the Kingdom are not mere philosophy—they are reality. The resurrection anchors trust in a historical act of God.

“This Jesus God has raised up, of which we are all witnesses.” – Acts 2:32

“I am He who lives, and was dead, and behold, I am alive forevermore. Amen. And I have the keys of Hades and of Death.” – Revelation 1:18

10) His way produces fruit that confirms reality

Jesus invites a test: examine outcomes. Over time, His leadership produces a different kind of life—peace that holds under pressure, love that forgives, integrity that endures, and usefulness that blesses others. Fruit does not earn salvation, but it confirms what is truly ruling the heart. Trust grows as you see His way consistently produce life.

“Therefore by their fruits you will know them.” – Matthew 7:20

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.” – Galatians 5:22–23

Key Ways to Start Trusting God in Your Life

Trust is strengthened through practiced obedience.

You do not have to begin with heroic faith. Begin with small, concrete acts that align with Jesus’ leadership. Over time, repeated trust reshapes your inner narrative and produces fruit.

1) Trust God with your next decision

Ask: “What would obedience look like in the next right step?”

Then do that step. Trust grows as you experience God’s faithfulness in ordinary choices.

“In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.” – Proverbs 3:6

2) Trust God with your anxious thoughts

Instead of rehearsing fear in your head, hand your concerns to God in prayer.

Peace is not denial; it is the result of shifting your energy to trusting a faithful Father.

“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God… will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:6–7

3) Trust God by surrendering control, eventually to include where you want control most

Identify the area where you insist on control —reputation, finances, relationships, outcomes — and consciously submit them one by one to God. Surrender is not passivity; it is placing authority in the right hands.

“Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, And He shall bring it to pass.” – Psalm 37:5

4) Trust God with obedience before you feel ready

Feelings often lag behind obedience. When you obey what you already know to be true, understanding and assurance tend to follow.

“If anyone wills to do His will, he shall know concerning the doctrine…” – John 7:17

5) Trust God by forgiving when it’s costly

Forgiveness is one of the clearest demonstrations of trust, because it places justice in God’s hands and frees your heart from bondage.

“And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.” – Ephesians 4:32

6) Trust God by serving — especially when no one applauds

Service is trust in action. It declares that God’s reward is real and that your life is not measured by human recognition.

“But he who is greatest among you shall be your servant.” – Matthew 23:11

Call to Action: Dig into Jesus — Then Emulate Him

If you want to trust God, begin where God begins: with Jesus. Study His words, His actions, His motives, His compassion, His courage, and His obedience. Let the Gospels rebuild your picture of God. Trust grows when you see who Jesus truly is.
Then emulate Him—not as performance, but as response. Start small: obey the next right step, tell the truth, forgive, serve, pray, and surrender control. As you walk His path, you will discover what countless believers have found: God is not only real—He is faithful.

“He who says he abides in Him ought himself also to walk just as He walked.” – 1 John 2:6

“Let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith…” – Hebrews 12:1–2

 

 

Take Up Your Cross

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What Does It Mean to Pick Up Your Cross? Learn from Jesus

Why Jesus Calls Us to the Cross

Jesus did not invite people into comfort, self-fulfillment, or religious status. He invited them into life—and He made clear that the path to that life runs through the cross. The call to “pick up your cross” is not metaphorical decoration; it is a defining mark of discipleship.
Understanding what Jesus meant by this call—and how He lived it Himself—transforms how we interpret suffering, obedience, and what it means to follow Him faithfully.

“If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me.”  Matthew 16:24

What Is Sacrificial Suffering?

Sacrificial suffering is the willing acceptance of loss, pain, or disadvantage in obedience to God and for the good of others. It is not suffering for suffering’s sake, nor is it the result of foolishness or wrongdoing. It is faithfulness chosen when obedience costs something real.
Jesus’ call to the cross teaches us that Kingdom life is built on trust in God rather than self-preservation.

Picking up your cross rarely looks dramatic. More often, it looks like forgiving when you would rather withdraw, holding to the truth when it costs you, remaining faithful when obedience feels unrewarded, and trusting God when outcomes are uncertain. It looks like serving without recognition, loving those who misunderstand you, refusing compromise when it would make life easier, and continuing to follow Jesus when comfort or pleasure would suggest another path. These quiet acts of faithfulness are the everyday shape of sacrificial suffering in the Kingdom of God.

Relational and Emotional Examples

    • Choosing forgiveness when you have every justification to withhold it
    • Loving someone who misunderstands, misrepresents, or rejects you
    • Remaining faithful in a marriage or relationship when it requires patience, humility, and restraint
    • Absorbing offense rather than escalating conflict
    • Speaking truth in love when silence would be safer

Integrity and Obedience Examples

    • Refusing dishonest gain even when it costs you financially or professionally
    • Telling the truth when it risks damage to your reputation or advancement
    • Obeying God privately when no one else will know or applaud
    • Saying no to temptation when indulging would bring immediate relief or pleasure

Trust and Surrender Examples

    • Letting go of control over outcomes, timing, or recognition
    • Staying obedient when obedience leads to inconvenience or loss
    • Continuing to trust God when prayers are unanswered or delayed
    • Choosing faithfulness when circumstances feel unfair

Service and Love Examples

    • Serving others without expectation of recognition or return
    • Giving time, energy, or resources when you feel stretched thin
    • Caring for someone in weakness, sickness, or need over a long period
    • Putting another person’s good ahead of personal comfort

Mission and Calling Examples

    • Answering God’s call when it disrupts your plans or security
    • Remaining faithful to your calling when results are slow or unseen
    • Standing for truth in a culture that pressures compromise

Why Picking Up Your Cross Matters

The cross reveals how different God’s Kingdom is from the world’s systems.

    • The world seeks and rewards comfort, control, recognition, and safety.
    • The Kingdom advances through humility, surrender, obedience, and love.

“For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it.” Matthew 16:25

Jesus Showed Us What Picking Up the Cross Looks Like

For Jesus, “picking up the cross” was not a single moment at Calvary. It was a lifelong posture of trust, surrender, obedience, and love, expressed in many forms of sacrificial suffering. Together, these reveal what cross-bearing truly looks like.

1. He Left Glory Willingly

Jesus’ suffering began before pain or rejection—it began with humility. He willingly laid aside the privileges of divine glory to enter human limitation. This was not loss imposed on Him; it was loss chosen for love.

“Who, being in the form of God, did not consider it robbery to be equal with God, but made Himself of no reputation, taking the form of a bondservant.” – Philippians 2:6–7

“In The Beginning Was The Word,… and the Word was God.” – John 1:1

“The Word became flesh and dwelt among us.” – John 1:14

2. He Became Fully Human and Embraced Weakness

Jesus entered the full vulnerability of human life—hunger, fatigue, grief, dependence. He did not shield Himself from weakness; He embraced it so He could redeem it.

“For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses.” – Hebrews 4:15

“Jesus therefore, being wearied from His journey, sat thus by the well.” – John 4:6

3. He Lived in Poverty and Obscurity

Jesus accepted a life without wealth, status, or security. He trusted the Father daily for provision rather than building earthly safety nets.

“The Son of Man has nowhere to lay His head.” – Matthew 8:20

“Though He was rich, yet for your sakes He became poor.” – 2 Corinthians 8:9

4. He Endured Temptation Without Sin

Jesus faced real temptation—pressure to satisfy Himself, seize power, and avoid suffering. Picking up the cross meant resisting shortcuts and trusting God’s way.

“Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted.” – Matthew 4:1

“He was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.” – Hebrews 4:15

5. He Was Misunderstood and Rejected

Jesus was repeatedly misunderstood—even by those closest to Him. Faithfulness did not bring approval; it often brought rejection.

“He came to His own, and His own did not receive Him.” – John 1:11

“Even His brothers did not believe in Him.” – John 7:5

6. He Was Betrayed by a Close Friend

Jesus suffered relationally. Betrayal came not from enemies, but from one He trusted and loved.

“He who eats bread with Me has lifted up his heel against Me.” – John 13:18

“Then one of the twelve, called Judas Iscariot, went to the chief priests.” – Matthew 26:14

7. He Was Abandoned by His Followers

At His darkest hour, Jesus stood alone. Those who pledged loyalty fled. Picking up the cross meant continuing obedience without human support.

“Then all the disciples forsook Him and fled.” – Matthew 26:56

“I am alone, because the Father is with Me.” – John 16:32

8. He Endured False Accusation and Injustice Without Retaliation

Jesus suffered unjust systems without retaliation. He trusted the Father to judge rightly.

“False witnesses came forward.” – Matthew 26:60

“Who, when He was reviled, did not revile in return.” – 1 Peter 2:23

9. He Accepted Mockery and Public Humiliation

Jesus absorbed shame rather than avoiding it. The cross included social and emotional suffering, not just physical pain.

“They mocked Him, saying, ‘Hail, King of the Jews!’” – Matthew 27:29

“He endured the cross, despising the shame.” – Hebrews 12:2

 10. He Suffered Extreme Physical Violence, And Then Forgave Them

Jesus’ body bore real pain. Love was not symbolic; it was costly.

“Then he released Barabbas to them; and when he had scourged Jesus, he delivered Him to be crucified.” – Matthew 27:26

“They pierced My hands and My feet.” – Psalm 22:16

“And Jesus said, ‘Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.’” – Luke 23:34

11. He Bore Sin and Guilt Not His Own

The deepest suffering of the cross was spiritual. Jesus carried the weight of humanity’s sin so reconciliation could occur.

“He Himself bore our sins in His own body on the tree.” – 1 Peter 2:24

“The LORD has laid on Him the iniquity of us all.” – Isaiah 53:6

12. He Experienced Spiritual Agony While Trusting the Father

Jesus felt the darkness of abandonment yet did not abandon faith. This shows that faithfulness is possible even without felt comfort.

“My God, My God, why have You forsaken Me?” – Matthew 27:46

“Father, into Your hands I commit My spirit.” – Luke 23:46

13. He Trusted God To The Point of Death and Beyond, in Faith Waiting for Vindication

Jesus entrusted the outcome fully to the Father. Resurrection was not forced—it was trusted.

“You will not leave My soul in Hades.” – Acts 2:27

“This Jesus God has raised up.” – Acts 2:32

Jesus picked up His cross by choosing trust over control, obedience over comfort, love over self-preservation, and faith over fear—at every stage of life, not only at death.

What Can We Learn from Jesus and His Cross

Picking up the cross teaches us that obedience precedes understanding, trust often comes before relief, and life emerges only after surrender.

“Though He was a Son, yet He learned obedience by the things which He suffered.” – Hebrews 5:8

The Following table summarizes the various ways Jesus suffered in faith, why each matters, and how we should apply that learning to our lives.

 

How Jesus Suffered What This Involved Why It Matters Appropriate Response
Leaving Glory Leaving heaven to become human Shows God’s humility and nearness Trust God’s humility; reject pride
Becoming Human Weakness, limitation, hunger, fatigue God fully understands human life Bring your weakness to God honestly
Poverty and Obscurity Living without wealth, status, or security God values faithfulness over success Detach worth from material success
Temptation Experiencing real temptation without sin Jesus understands moral struggle Trust Him for help in temptation
Rejection Rejected by crowds, leaders, even family Faithful doesn’t guarantee approval Obey God without needing validation
Betrayal Judas’ betrayal for money Love does not prevent betrayal Love without controlling outcomes
Abandoned Disciples fled at His arrest God’s plan does not depend on loyalty Stay faithful even when alone
Accusation / Injustice Unjust trial, false witness God sees truth even when systems fail Entrust justice to God
Mockery / Humiliation Spitting, beating, ridicule, public shame God absorbs shame to restore us Release shame; value humility
Physical Suffering Scourging, exhaustion, crucifixion Love is costly, not theoretical Take sin and love seriously
Bearing Sin Taking upon Himself the guilt of others Sin has real weight and consequence Receive forgiveness; reject self-justification
Spiritual Agony Feeling forsaken while trusting the Father Faith persists even without felt comfort Trust God in emotional darkness
Death Willingly surrendering His life God’s love goes to the uttermost Die to self-rule; trust eternity

How Do We Pick Up Our Cross Today?

We do not seek suffering, but we do not avoid obedience when suffering comes.

Picking up your cross means choosing faithfulness over comfort in real, everyday decisions.

1) Humble Yourself

Like it or not, You are completely dependent on God; You can do nothing without Him. 

“I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing.” – John 15-5

2) Submit Yourself To God – Put Him First – Make Jesus Lord of Your Life

You have free will. God gives you the choice and your choice has consequences. God promises blessings and protection if we put Him first and follow His instructions and He make it clear there are consequences if we chose not to follow Him.

“See, I am setting before you today a blessing and a curse: the blessing, if you obey the commandments of the Lord your God, which I command you today, and the curse, if you do not obey the commandments of the Lord your God, but turn aside from the way that I am commanding you today, to go after other gods that you have not known. – Deuteronomy 11:26-28

“Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” – James 4:7

“…if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” – Romans 10:9

3) Release Control and Entrust Outcomes to God

“Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, And He shall bring it to pass.” – Psalm 37:5

4) Love and Serve Without Needing Recognition

“By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us.” 1 John 3:16

5) Absorb the bad crap that happens to you and do not retaliate

One of the best ways I have learned to understand the cross came from Dan Mohler. 

His quote is “Don’t let sin against you become sin in you.” 

You need to absorb the bad stuff that people say or do and let it fall off you without you taking it to heart or adversely impacting your attitude.

 Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” – Romans 12:17-19

6) Obey God Even When It Costs You

“Be doers of the word, and not hearers only.” James 1:22

Are We Walking in Fellowship with Jesus and the Cross?

Use this table as a self-test.

“That I may know Him and the power of His resurrection, and the fellowship of His sufferings.” – Philippians 3:10

 

Aspect of Life Carrying My Cross (Following Jesus) Living for Myself
Core Motivation “I want God’s will more than my comfort.” “I want what feels best or benefits me most.”
Decision-Making Choose obedience even when costly Choose convenience, safety, or advantage
Response to Suffering Trust God; seeks meaning and faithfulness Resist, resent, or escape discomfort
View of Control Surrender outcomes to God Try to manage, manipulate, or protect
Use of Power or Position Serve others humbly Use power for self-protection or status
Handling of Offense Forgive; release vengeance Hold grudges; rehearses wrongs
Approach to Truth Embrace truth even when uncomfortable Avoid or redefines truth to feel justified
Relationship with Sin Actively resist and repent Rationalize, hides, or accommodates
Attitude Toward Recognition Content to be unseen by people Need validation, praise, or approval
Stewardship of Resources Use time, energy, and money for God’s purposes Use resources primarily for self
Love for Others Give sacrificially without return Love when it is convenient or reciprocal
Prayer Life Seek alignment with God’s will Seek relief, control, or outcomes
Faith Under Delay Remain faithful when results are slow Grow discouraged or disengaged
Fruit Over Time Peace, humility, endurance, usefulness Anxiety, frustration, emptiness
Eternal Perspective Live with eternity in view Live mainly for the present moment

Ask Yourself:

Which column most honestly describes my current posture?

Where do I most resist surrendering control?

What is one concrete way I can pick up my cross today?

Picking up the cross daily means choosing trust, obedience, and love over comfort, control, and self-preservation—again and again.

Where to Learn More

• Isaiah 52–53
• Matthew 16, 26–27
• Hebrews 2, 5, 12
• 1 Peter 2–4

Call to Action

Look closely at Jesus. Study how He trusted, obeyed, and loved through suffering.

Then begin to emulate Him—not perfectly, but faithfully.

“He who says he abides in Him ought himself also to walk just as He walked.”  – 1 John 2:6

Follow Jesus Teachings and Enter The Kingdom

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Jesus Teaches Us How to Enter the Kingdom

Introduction: Understanding how God’s Kingdom works — and how our lives must align with it.

Jesus did not come merely to offer moral guidance or spiritual inspiration. He came announcing the arrival of God’s Kingdom — and teaching people how to enter it. From His very first public words, Jesus made it clear that entry into the Kingdom requires a decisive response, a transfer of authority, and a transformation that reaches the heart.

“Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” — Matthew 4:17 (NKJV)

Jesus’ teachings are not random sayings or abstract ideals. They are a coherent explanation of how God’s Kingdom operates and what must change in us for that Kingdom to become real. The Kingdom is not assumed, inherited, or accidental — it is entered.

What Are Jesus’ Teachings, Really?

Jesus’ teachings form a unified Kingdom framework. They address authority, the inner life, relationships, dependence on God, and the fruit a life produces. They are not merely informational — they are formational.

“If you abide in My word, you are My disciples indeed. And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” — John 8:31–32 (NKJV)

Why Jesus’ Teachings Are So Important

They Describe Reality, Not Opinion

Jesus does not argue for truth; He reveals it. His teachings describe how life actually works under God’s rule. Resistance fractures life; alignment stabilizes it.

“I am the way, the truth, and the life.” — John 14:6

They Address the Heart, Not Just Behavior

Jesus consistently went beneath outward behavior to the inner drivers of sin and righteousness. Lasting change occurs at the root.

“Whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” — Matthew 5:28

They Rewire How We Think

Jesus overturns worldly logic: losing life to find it, serving to lead, humbling oneself to be exalted. These are Kingdom mechanics.

“Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:2

They Expose False Faith

Jesus’ teachings function diagnostically. They reveal whether God truly rules a life.

“Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven…” — Matthew 7:21

What Did Jesus Teach Us About Entering the Kingdom?

Authority & Allegiance — Who Rules?

Jesus begins with authority. Repentance is a transfer of rule from self to God. Calling Him Lord without obedience is rejected.

 

Lesson What Jesus Is Teaching Scripture
Repentance Turn from self-rule to God’s rule Matthew 4:17 — “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.”
Follow Me Submit your direction to Jesus Matthew 4:19 — “Follow Me, and I will make you fishers of men.”
Kingdom First God’s reign takes priority over all else Matthew 6:33 — “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness…”
Lordship vs Lip Service True allegiance is proven by obedience Luke 6:46 — “Why do you call Me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and not do the things which I say?”

Heart & Inner Life — Who You Are Becoming?

Jesus insists that intentions matter as much as actions. The Kingdom is sustained by internal alignment, not external compliance.

Lesson What Jesus Is Teaching Scripture
Heart Intentions Matter Inner motives matter as much as outward actions Matthew 5:28 — “Has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”
Anger as the Seed of Murder Unchecked anger destroys from within Matthew 5:22 — “Whoever is angry with his brother… in danger of judgment.”
Purity of Heart Inner cleanliness enables spiritual sight Matthew 5:8 — “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.”
Single-Minded Devotion Divided allegiance is impossible in the Kingdom Matthew 6:24 — “No one can serve two masters.”

Character & Relationships — How Love Operates

Love is the operating currency of the Kingdom. Forgiveness, mercy, and enemy-love reflect God’s own governance.

Lesson What Jesus Is Teaching Scripture
Love God Fully Total devotion is the greatest command Matthew 22:37 — “You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart…”
Love Your Neighbor Kingdom love flows outward to others Matthew 22:39 — “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
Love Your Enemies Kingdom love overcomes hostility Matthew 5:44 — “Love your enemies… pray for those who spitefully use you.”
Forgiveness & Mercy Forgiven people must forgive Matthew 18:21–22 — “Seventy times seven.”

Faith, Trust & Dependence — What You Rely On?

The Kingdom runs on trust in God, not self-reliance. Prayer and abiding keep us connected to the true source of life.

Lesson What Jesus Is Teaching Scripture Anchor (NKJV)
Faith Over Fear Trust replaces anxiety Matthew 6:25 — “Do not worry about your life…”
Trust God for Provision The Father knows and provides Matthew 6:32–33 — “Your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things.”
Prayer as Relationship Prayer flows from intimacy, not performance Matthew 6:6 — “Pray to your Father who is in the secret place.”
Abiding in Christ Life flows from union with Jesus John 15:4–5 — “Abide in Me… without Me you can do nothing.”

Obedience, Fruit & Accountability — What Does Your Life Produce?

Jesus ties truth to outcome. Fruit reveals alignment. Eternity gives weight to every choice.

 

Lesson What Jesus Is Teaching Scripture Anchor (NKJV)
Obedience Over Knowledge Love is demonstrated through obedience John 14:15 — “If you love Me, keep My commandments.”
Bearing Fruit True life produces visible fruit Matthew 7:17 — “A good tree bears good fruit.”
Cost of Discipleship Following Jesus requires surrender Luke 14:27 — “Whoever does not bear his cross… cannot be My disciple.”
Judgment & Eternity Choices have eternal consequences Matthew 7:21 — “Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter…”

How Do You Embrace Jesus’ Teachings?

Jesus never intended His teachings to be admired from a distance. They must be lived.

Following are the best practice steps to embrace them

  1. Treat Them as Truth, Not Suggestions

“Heaven and earth will pass away, but My words will by no means pass away.” — Matthew 24:35 (NKJV)

  1. Let Obedience Precede Clarity

“If anyone wills to do His will, he shall know concerning the doctrine.” — John 7:17 (NKJV)

  1. Apply Them at the Heart Level

Ask what desire, fear, or self-centered love Jesus is confronting in each teaching.

  1. Practice Them in Small, Concrete Ways

Transformation accumulates through consistent obedience in ordinary life.

  1. Return to Them Repeatedly

Jesus revisited the same teachings because formation requires repetition.

Where Can You Learn More?

Scripture Study Paths

Matthew 4–7 (Kingdom foundations)

Matthew 5–7 (Sermon on the Mount)

John 13–17 (Love, abiding, obedience)

Romans 6–8 (New life in the Spirit)

Galatians 2–5 (Crucified life, freedom)

Hebrews 12 (Endurance and discipline)

Key Themes to Study

Repentance vs self-rule

Heart motives vs external behavior

Obedience vs knowledge alone

Abiding vs striving

Call to Action

Jesus did not merely describe the Kingdom — He calls people to enter it.

Entry requires repentance, surrender, and obedience from the heart.

Do not assume entry.

Respond to Jesus’ teachings as instructions for alignment with reality. Lay down self-rule. Trust His words. Obey what you already know.

The Kingdom of God becomes visible wherever people take Jesus seriously enough to follow Him.

Follow Jesus And Become The Person He Intended

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Follow Jesus and Become The Person He Intended

Introduction: 

Jesus did not merely call people to believe true things about Him. He called them to follow Him — to enter His Kingdom, live under His leadership, and be transformed into the people God intended them to be.

“Follow Me.” — Matthew 4:19

This post lays out a full picture of how Jesus leads: through His Word, His teaching, His authority, His character of love, His example, His voice, and personal fellowship with Him.

It then provides a practical guide to what it means to follow Jesus, why it matters, and how to do it in a repeatable, concrete way—so your life progressively reflects His truth, His character, and His fruit.

What Does It Mean to Follow Jesus?

To follow Jesus means to submit your life to His leadership:

    • Your thinking,
    • Your priorities,
    • Your decisions,
    • Your relationships,
    • Your money,
    • Your time,
    • Your identity, and
    • Your direction.

Following is not merely learning information about Christ; it is living in alignment with Him.

Following Jesus has three core elements:

• Direction: You intentionally move where He leads, not where impulse or culture pulls.
• Transformation: You learn His ways and are formed into His likeness.
• Obedience: You respond to His words, even when it costs you comfort or reputation.

“If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me.”  — Matthew 16:24

Following Jesus is not about losing your true self. It is about being rescued from counterfeit identities and destructive loops so you can live the life you were created for. You only loose the things you were never intended to have.

“I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” — John 10:10

Why Is Following Jesus So Important?

Everyone is being formed by something. Jesus calls us to be formed intentionally by truth, love, and life shared with Him.

The stakes are not merely a religious exercise. Following Jesus determines how you interpret reality, how you love others, how you respond to suffering, and what kind of person you become.

Jesus is the only reliable guide to life, truth, and reconciliation with God.

1) Jesus Is The Way, The Truth, And The Life

Jesus does not does not offer a personal perspective, cultural insight, or spiritual philosophy—He reveals reality as it truly is, a spiritual world operating under God’s rule. When Jesus speaks, He is not suggesting a better way to think; He is unveiling how life actually works. That is why His teachings confront us rather than merely encourage us. They expose false assumptions we hold about success, control, identity, and security, replacing them with truth.

“Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.’”  — John 14:6

Resisting Jesus’ leadership does not merely result in moral failure; it results in misalignment with reality, which inevitably produces confusion and instability. Alignment with Him, however, brings coherence. Life begins to make sense because it is finally ordered around truth rather than self-centered impulse or fear.

2) Self-Direction Quietly Produces Confusion And Loss, Jesus brings us back to Life.

One of the most dangerous illusions Jesus confronts is the belief that we can successfully direct our own lives without consequence. Self-direction rarely looks rebellious at first. It often appears reasonable, responsible, or even virtuous. But Jesus make it clear that that paths that seem right can still lead to destruction because they are built on self-rule rather than God’s rule.

“There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death.” – Proverbs 14:12

Following Jesus rescues us from this slow, subtle drift. He interrupts patterns of self-centered love—where comfort, control, approval, or advantage quietly become governing values in our life—and He replaces them with trust in God. Without His leadership, people tend to cycle into a spiral of striving, justification, comparison, resentment, and eventual bitterness.

Jesus rescues us from those cycles as soon as we are willing to let Him lead us.

3) Transformation Requires Leadership, Not Willpower

Many people sincerely want to change and become better people. They want peace, patience, self-control, and love. What Jesus exposes is that desire alone is insufficient. Transformation does not occur through moral effort or self-discipline in isolation; it requires submission to a living leader who can reshape the inner life.

Jesus does not merely instruct from a distance—He leads from within. As we submit to His authority, His life begins to form in us. Old patterns lose their grip, not because we tried harder, but because a new governing power has taken root. Without leadership, people oscillate between brief improvement and repeated failure. With Jesus as leader, transformation becomes progressive and durable.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.”  — 2 Corinthians 5:17

4) Following Jesus Produces Fruit That Confirms Reality

Jesus consistently tied authentic following to observable fruit. This is not about perfection, but about direction and outcome. Over time, what truly governs a life becomes visible—peace or anxiety, humility or defensiveness, love or self-protection, stability or chaos.

The frit of our effort bears witness to the truth even when words cannot. A life submitted to Jesus increasingly produces endurance under pressure, clarity in decision-making, restored relationships, and usefulness to others. A life governed by self—even when outwardly religious—tends to produce strain, division, and exhaustion.

Jesus invites us to observe our outcomes and connect the dots back to our intentions. The fruit of our lives reveals which kingdom is actually ruling.

“Even so, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit… Therefore by their fruits you will know them.” – Matthew 7:17, 20

How Jesus Leads Us

Scripture presents multiple, complementary ways Jesus leads His people.

These are not competing options; these modes interact to provide a robust recipe for our growth.

Primary channels:

    • His Word (Scripture and Commands)
    • His Teaching (Kingdom understanding and Wisdom)
    • His Authority (Lordship – Submission and Obedience)
    • His Character (Humility, love, obedience)
    • His Works (Modeling Sacrificial Love in Action)
    • His Voice (Relational guidance by the Spirit, aligned with God’s will, confirming goodness of God)
    • Personal Fellowship (Abiding presence) 

A practical way to remember the interaction is a repeating loop:

Word → Understanding → Perspective → Imitation → Obedience → Fruit → Deeper Hearing (and back again).

“If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you.”  — John 15:7

How Do You Follow Jesus?

Following Jesus becomes sustainable only when it is built into your daily operating system

    • Your choice of inputs,
    • Your rhythms,
    • Your decision process,
    • Your relationships, and
    • Your response patterns.

The goal is not religious busyness; it is faithful alignment. 

The following are some best practice approaches to follow Jesus:

1) Let His Word Lead You More Strongly Than Your Feelings

Your emotions are very real, but they are often misleading.

Scripture functions as a lamp—exposing hidden hazards and revealing the proper next step.

The habit that changes everything is letting Scripture set the narrative before your feelings set the agenda.

“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.”  — Psalm 119:105

Best practices:

2) Learn How Jesus Thinks, Not Just What He Commands

Jesus’ teaching is not merely a list of rules; it is a worldview.

As you absorb His teaching, your perspective changes—what you value changes—and your decisions start to look different.

“Then He opened their understanding, that they might comprehend the Scriptures.” — Luke 24:45

Best practices:

• Spend sustained time in the Gospels: read Matthew, Mark, Luke, John repeatedly.
• Observe patterns: What does Jesus praise? What does He confront? What does He refuse?
• Replace assumptions: where culture says “self first,” ask what the Kingdom says instead.
• Study in context: avoid extracting verses to support what you already want.

3) Pursue Renewed Thinking and Discernment

Following Jesus requires a renovated mind.

Many people stall because they keep operating with old assumptions—then wonder why they keep getting old results.

Renewal is where truth replaces lies and discernment increases.

“And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.”  — Romans 12:2

Best practices:

• Name the lie: write the recurring belief that drives your fear, anger, pride, or despair.
• Replace with truth: pair each lie with an explicit Scripture truth and rehearse it daily.
• Watch your inputs: reduce content that trains cynicism, lust, outrage, or envy.
• Ask for counsel: invite mature believers to challenge your blind spots.

4) Imitate His Nature (Character Before Outcomes)

Jesus leads not only with instruction but by example. You can pursue ‘Christian activities’ and still miss His character.

Following means becoming the kind of person who responds the way Jesus responds.

“Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” – Matthew 11:29

Best practices:

• Practice humility: slow down before defending yourself; ask, “What can I learn here?”
• Practice love in small decisions: choose patience, honesty, generosity, and service when nobody is watching.
• Confess quickly: repentance keeps the channel clear and prevents hardening.
• Measure growth by resemblance to Christ, not by status, platform, or performance.

5) Obey Promptly—Especially Where It Costs

Obedience is the bridge between knowing and becoming. Many people accumulate knowledge and call it maturity. But Scripture treats disobedience as a leadership problem: calling Him ‘Lord’ while keeping control.

“But why do you call Me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do the things which I say?”  — Luke 6:46

Best practices:

• Act on the next step: do not wait for a complete five-year plan.
• Close partial obedience: identify the one area you keep exempting and bring it under Christ.
• Build accountability: follow-through is easier with structure and support.
• Expect resistance: obedience often collides with comfort, reputation, or control—plan for that friction.

6) Accept the Cross as Part of the Path

Jesus leads through surrender, not self-preservation. The cross is not an accessory; it is the path where the old self loses its grip and true life emerges. This is where self-centered love is confronted and displaced.

“For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it.” — Matthew 16:25

Best practices:

• Identify self-protection: where do you demand control, comfort, or vindication?
• Practice surrender in prayer: “Lord, not my will—teach me Yours.”
• Reframe trials: treat pressure as formation, not proof that God left you.
• Choose faithfulness over image: follow Jesus when it is costly, not only when it is celebrated.

7) Cultivate A Relationship – Hear His Voice Through the Spirit, Tested by Scripture

Jesus leads His sheep relationally. Over time, the more you obey what you already know, the more clearly you tend to recognize His guidance. However, Scripture remains the objective guardrail.

“My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me.” –  John 10:27

Best practices:

• Create quiet: reduce noise so conviction is not drowned out by distraction.
• Be Led: Ask Him Questions, Listen for His answer, Write it down
• Test impressions: if a ‘prompting’ contradicts Scripture, it is not from Jesus.
• Look for Christlike outcomes: humility, love, truth, and peace—rather than ego and chaos.
• Practice obedience to small promptings: faithfulness increases sensitivity.

How Can I Tell If I Am Following Jesus?

Use the table below as a self test diagnostic. The goal is not condemnation; it is clarity—so you can identify where alignment is strong and where it needs to deepen.

 

Flow Stage Not Following Jesus Following Jesus Verse
Hear His Word Scripture is sporadic, optional, or used only in crisis. Scripture shapes decisions and self-talk; I obey what I read. Your word is a lamp to my feet – Psalm 119:105
Understand His Teaching Culture, fear, or self-interest dominates interpretation. Jesus’ worldview reframes priorities; truth corrects assumptions. If you abide in My word… you shall know the truth – John 8:31–32
Renewed Mind Repeated confusion, rationalization, or double-mindedness. Lies are identified and replaced; discernment increases over time. Be transformed by the renewing of your mind – Romans 12:2
Imitate His Nature Defensiveness, pride, comparison, self-protection. Growing humility, gentleness, love, and repentance. Learn from Me… for I am gentle and lowly – Matthew 11:29
Obedience Delayed obedience; negotiated obedience; selective obedience. Prompt obedience; I serve; I follow through even when costly. Why do you call Me ‘Lord’ and not do what I say  – Luke 6:46
Bear Fruit Striving, anxiety, stagnation, recurring relational damage. Peace, endurance, growing usefulness, and relational repair. By their fruits you will know them  – Matthew 7:20
Hear His Voice Spiritual numbness; impulsive ‘guidance’ untethered from Scripture. Clear conviction and guidance consistent with Scripture. My sheep hear My voice and follow Me  – John 10:27

Am I Following or Am I Stalled?

Many believers do not stop following Jesus entirely; they stall at a predictable point in the process.

This table helps you locate the stall and take the next faithful step.

 

Stall Point What It Often Feels Like Common Symptoms Likely Root Next Best Step
Word “I’m too busy / I’ll start later.” Low intake; shallow recall; reactive decisions. Self-directed authority; weak rhythms. Set a daily minimum;read + apply one action.
Teaching “I know a lot, but nothing changes.” Information without transformation. Hearing without doing. Study one Gospel section and obey one command immediately.
Renewal “I keep repeating the same loop.” Recurring lies; rationalization; confusion. Unchallenged beliefs driving emotions. Name the lie;replace with Scripture;
Rehearse daily.
Nature “I’m right; they’re wrong.” Defensiveness;
Pride;
Harshness.		 Identity rooted in self/ego. Repent quickly;Practice humility;Reconcile where possible.
Obedience “I’ll do it when it’s easier.” Delay;
Selective obedience;
Avoidance.		 Fear of loss;
Comfort/control.		 Do the costly next step; add accountability.
Fruit “I don’t see impact.” Little peace;
Little usefulness;
Ongoing drift.		 Misaligned priorities;
Divided focus.		 Realign time / money / relationships toward Kingdom priorities.
Voice “I can’t tell what God wants.” Noise, distraction;
Impulsive decisions.		 Weak abiding;
Low quiet;
Poor testing.		 Create quiet; Test with Scripture;Obey the last clear instruction.

“If anyone wills to do His will, he shall know concerning the doctrine.” — John 7:17 (NKJV)

Where Can I Learn More?

Scripture Study Paths:

• The Call to Follow and Kingdom Living: Matthew 4–7
• Hearing His Voice and Shepherding: John 10
• Love, Humility, and Example: John 13
• Abiding, the Spirit, and Fruit: John 14–17
• New Life, the Spirit-led Walk, and Freedom: Romans 6–8
• Crucified Life and the Fruit of the Spirit: Galatians 2–5
• Endurance, Discipline, and Maturity: Hebrews 12

Key Topics to Study:

• Abiding vs striving (John 15:1–8)
• Obedience vs knowledge-only religion (James 1:22–25)
• Renewing the mind (Romans 12:2)
• Putting off the old / putting on the new (Ephesians 4:22–24)
• Walking by the Spirit vs the flesh (Galatians 5:16–26)
• Hearing and following the Shepherd (John 10:1–30)
• Endurance under pressure (Hebrews 12:1–11)

A practical study method:

• Read: one short passage.
• Observe: what does it reveal about Jesus and the Kingdom?
• Apply: one concrete act of obedience.
• Pray: ask for power to do what you saw.
• Review: revisit the same passage across the week until it becomes practice.

Call to Action

Jesus is not merely offering forgiveness; He is offering leadership.

The life you were created for is not found by asking Jesus to endorse your plans. It is found by stepping behind Him—daily—and letting Him lead your mind, your heart, and your decisions.

Start with the next faithful step. Return to the Word. Obey what you already know. Practice humility. Surrender what you’ve kept in your own hands. And keep walking.

Over time, you will look back and realize you did not merely ‘try harder’—you were led into a different kind of life.

“Follow Me.” — Matthew 9:9 (NKJV)

Be Transformed By The Goodness Of God

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See The Goodness Of God and Be Transformed

Introduction: 

Many people obey God because they fear Him. Fewer are transformed because they truly know Him.

God is both perfectly just and abundantly good. Yet these two aspects of His character do not produce the same outcome in the human heart. Judgment can constrain behaviors.  Goodness changes desires. Judgment can force compliance. Goodness draws us into relationship—and relationship produces transformation.

If you want to live the life God intended, not merely conform to a set of rules, you must learn to see, trust, and respond to the goodness of God.

What Is the Goodness of God?

The goodness of God is His faithful, loving, merciful, covenant-keeping character, consistently expressed toward people who do not deserve it.  This is not to be confused with indulgence, tolerance, or permissiveness. 

“The LORD is good to all, And His tender mercies are over all His works.”   — Psalm 145:9

God’s goodness includes:

    • Love that initiates before repentance
    • Mercy that withholds deserved judgment
    • Grace that empowers change, and does not excuse sin
    • Faithfulness that keeps promises across generations
    • Patience that gives space for repentance

“Or do you despise the riches of His goodness, forbearance, and longsuffering, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?”   — Romans 2:4

This verse is decisive: repentance is not primarily produced by fear—it is produced by goodness rightly perceived.

How the Goodness of God Differs from the Judgment of God

God’s Goodness and God’s Judgment are two distinct Divine Tools.

God is both abundantly good and perfectly just at the same time. These attributes do not compete with one another, nor do they serve the same function. 

Confusion arises when judgment is expected to accomplish what only goodness can, or when goodness is mistaken for the absence of judgment.  God employs each tool according to its purpose—and transformation depends on understanding the difference.

Judgment establishes moral reality. Goodness invites us into a relationship.

“The LORD is righteous in all His ways,  Gracious in all His works.”  — Psalm 145:17

God’s judgment defines truth, consequence, and accountability. It sets boundaries in a fallen world where sin distorts judgment and desire.

“For the LORD is our Judge, The LORD is our Lawgiver, The LORD is our King; He will save us.” — Isaiah 33:22

Judgment answers the question: What is right, and what happens if I persist in rebellion?

Goodness answers a different question: Who is God, and can He be trusted with my life?

“Oh, give thanks to the LORD, for He is good!  For His mercy endures forever.” — Psalm 136:1

Judgment restrains chaos and brings order. Goodness invites and builds relationship.

Both are necessary—but they are not the same and are not interchangeable.

How Humans Actually Respond to Each

God’s attributes interact with fallen human hearts, activating very different internal responses; judgment and goodness awaken different postures within us.

Judgment Activates the Mind

Judgment confronts sin through consequence and authority. Its primary internal effect is fear, which triggers self-protection and behavioral restraint.

Judgment primarily engages the mind by clarifying truth and consequences, authority and accountability. It removes ignorance and forces recognition of moral reality. The heart is affected through fear of consequences, this fear restrains behavior but does not inspire the submission necessary to shift our desires and enable transformation.

“Knowing, therefore, the terror of the Lord, we persuade men…” — 2 Corinthians 5:11

Fear is appropriate and necessary, particularly when a person is unaware of the seriousness of sin. A threat of consequences will get your attention and compel you to understand options to avoid those consequences.   Scripture calls this “the beginning of wisdom”.

“The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, And the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.” — Proverbs 9:10

Fear-based motivation tends to produce:

      • External conformity/compliance
      • Defensive obedience
      • Calculation of risk versus reward
      • Minimal compliance to avoid consequence

“For what the law could not do in that it was weak through the flesh…” — Romans 8:3

Judgment can expose sin, but it cannot heal desire. It can restrain behavior, but it cannot transform the heart.

Goodness Activates the Heart

God’s goodness engages a different internal mechanism: Trust.

Where fear causes withdrawal, goodness creates safety. Where judgment confronts, goodness invites.

“Taste and see that the LORD is good; Blessed is the man who trusts in Him!”  — Psalm 34:8

Trust allows the heart to open rather than defend itself. This openness makes repentance possible—not as forced submission, but as willing return to God.

“Or do you despise the riches of His goodness, forbearance, and longsuffering, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?”  — Romans 2:4

Goodness produces:

      • Willing surrender
      • Honest confession
      • Relational obedience
      • Engagement to change Desires

“I drew them with gentle cords, with bands of love…” — Hosea 11:4

Summary of the differences

Judgment warns the mind. Goodness wins the heart.

The distinction becomes even more clear in the output.

    • Compliance is behavior constrained by fear.
    • Transformation is identity reshaped by trust.

Judgment works from the outside in. It applies pressure to behavior.

Goodness works from the inside out. It reshapes desires.

“For the law made nothing perfect; on the other hand, there is the bringing in of a better hope, through which we draw near to God.” — Hebrews 7:19

People can obey without surrender. They cannot be transformed without it.

Surrender requires trust. Trust requires perceived goodness.

“Your gentleness has made me great.”
— Psalm 18:35

Judgment can stop destructive behavior. That is a mercy. But stopping sin is not the same as becoming new.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.”
— 2 Corinthians 5:17

Transformation involves:

    • New desires
    • New motivations
    • New identity
    • New orientation toward God

These cannot be coerced. They must be chosen—and choice requires trust.

This is why Scripture consistently moves people from law to grace, from fear to love, from external control to internal renewal.

“For the law was given through Moses, but grace and truth came through Jesus Christ.”
— John 1:17

Judgment awakens the conscience.
Goodness remakes the person.

God uses judgment to confront rebellion.
He uses goodness to draw us into relationship—and relationship is where transformation occurs.

If judgment shows us that we must change, the goodness of God convinces us that change is worth making—and that is why Jesus leads not with threats, but with invitation.

Here is a summary of the effects of  Judgement and Goodnes

Aspect

 Judgment of God Goodness of God
Primary Function Accountability Attraction
Motivation Produced Fear Trust
Typical Result Compliance Surrender
Effect on the Heart Restrains behavior Changes desires
Longevity Often temporary Enduring
Relationship Outcome Distance Intimacy

“The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom…” — Proverbs 9:10

“There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear…” — 1 John 4:18

Fear may start the journey. Love must complete it.

Why Jesus Leads with Love

Judgment says: “Change or else.”
Goodness says: “Come and live.”

Jesus never built His kingdom through intimidation. He described Himself as a shepherd, not a warden.

“I am the good shepherd; and I know My sheep, and am known by My own…
My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me.” — John 10:14, 27

Sheep are not driven by fear. They are drawn by trust. They follow because they recognize the shepherd’s voice and character.

Judgment can stop outward rebellion.
Goodness awakens inward allegiance.

Why Transformation Matters

Transformation is not optional. It is central to God’s purpose.

1. We Are Co-Workers in Creation

God does not merely save us from sin; He restores us to purpose.

“For we are God’s fellow workers…” — 1 Corinthians 3:9

An untransformed life cannot steward divine responsibility.

2. We Are Ambassadors and Representatives

“Now then, we are ambassadors for Christ…” — 2 Corinthians 5:20

Fear-based obedience produces brittle ambassadors.
Goodness-formed hearts reflect God accurately.

3. We Exist to Bring God Glory in All We Do

“Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”
— 1 Corinthians 10:31

Only a transformed heart glorifies God consistently—especially when no one is watching.

4. Transformation Prepares Us for Heaven

Heaven is not merely a destination; it is a culture. Those who resist transformation now would find heaven unbearable later.

“But we all… are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory…”  — 2 Corinthians 3:18

How the Goodness of God Transforms

Transformation follows a discernible internal progression:

    • Goodness is perceived
    • Trust is formed
    • Surrender becomes possible
    • Obedience flows willingly
    • Character is reshaped

“Taste and see that the LORD is good; Blessed is the man who trusts in Him!” — Psalm 34:8

You cannot surrender to someone you do not trust.
You cannot trust someone whose goodness you do not believe.

How God’s Goodness Has Manifested

God’s goodness is not abstract. It is historical, personal, and observable.

Supremely in Christ

“But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” — Romans 5:8

Jesus is not merely the solution to judgment; He is the revelation of God’s goodness in flesh.

Personally in Your Life

Protection you did not recognize

Provision you did not earn

Patience you abused but were still given

Conviction that prevented worse destruction

“Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me All the days of my life…”  — Psalm 23:6

How to See, Embrace, and Be Transformed by God’s Goodness

Seeing the goodness of God is not automatic. It must be learned, practiced, and protected.

Many people are surrounded by evidence of God’s goodness yet remain blind to it—not because God is absent, but because fear, wounds, self-reliance, and distorted beliefs filter what they see. Transformation begins when those filters are removed and replaced with truth.

1. Re-frame God Correctly

You cannot embrace the goodness of God if you are relating to a false version of Him.

For many, God has been unconsciously recast as angry and distant:

      • A strict taskmaster
      • A distant authority figure
      • A transactional judge
      • A reluctant giver of grace

These are false images of God and must be rejected and replaced with the truth as revealed in God’s word:

“The LORD, the LORD God, merciful and gracious, longsuffering, and abounding in goodness and truth.”
— Exodus 34:6

Practice:

Consciously replace false assumptions about God with Scripture-based truth.

When any negative thought about God arises (“God is disappointed with me,” “God is withholding good”), pause and ask: Where did I learn this, and does Scripture actually support it?

2. Practice Intentional Remembrance

Transformation accelerates when goodness is remembered.

Many people decide whether God is good based on how life is going. Scripture teaches the opposite: God’s character interprets circumstances, not circumstances interpreting God.

“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God…”
— Romans 8:28

Trials do not negate God’s goodness; they often reveal it later.

Practice:

When facing difficulty, intentionally ask:

What might God be protecting me from?

What might He be shaping in me?

How could this be an expression of long-term good rather than immediate comfort?

3. Train Yourself to Notice and Name God’s Goodness Daily

God’s goodness is often subtle, cumulative, and easily overlooked—especially by people trained by the world to focus on lack, threat, and control.

“Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all His benefits.”
— Psalm 103:2

Forgetting is not accidental; it is a default condition.

Practice:

Develop a daily practice of reflection and recognition:

Write down things your are grateful for – Goodness that you can see around your or in your life

Write down specific instances of provision, protection, patience, or guidance

Thank God for mercy you did not earn and consequences you were spared

Revisit past seasons and identify where God’s goodness was present but unrecognized at the time

This trains spiritual perception.

4. Spend Time In The Word with Jesus Until His Character Becomes Your Reference Point

Jesus is the clearest, safest, and fullest revelation of God’s goodness.

“He who has seen Me has seen the Father.” – John 14:9

If your view of God contradicts with the way Jesus treated sinners, strugglers, and the broken, your view is wrong.

Practice:

Read the 4 Gospels – Matthew, Mark, Luke, John one small section at a time and observe:

        • Who Jesus draws near to
        • How He responds to repentance versus pride
        • What He corrects
        • What He restores
        • Ask repeatedly:
          • What does this passage reveal about God’s heart toward people?
          • Is this how I expect God to treat me?

5. Respond to God’s Goodness with Surrender, Not Suspicion

Goodness invites trust, but many respond with guardedness:

“What will this cost me?”

“What if God asks too much?”

“What if I lose control?”

Trust is the bridge between seeing goodness and being transformed by it.

“Taste and see that the LORD is good; Blessed is the man who trusts in Him!” — Psalm 34:8

Practice:

Identify one area of your life where you are resisting God and intentionally surrender it—not because you fully understand, but because you trust His character.

If you want help deciding, just ask him. 

“Lord, In what area am i resisting you, What should I surrender to you today.?” 

Write down what He tells you, then do it

Obedience in response to goodness strengthens trust exponentially.

6.  Allow God’s Kindness to Lead You into Repentance, Not Self-Condemnation

God’s goodness exposes sin, but it does so safely—without shame or rejection.

“The goodness of God leads you to repentance.”— Romans 2:4

If conviction produces despair, hiding, or self-hatred, it is not being interpreted through God’s goodness.

Practice:

When convicted:

        • Confess quickly
        • Receive forgiveness fully
        • Return to relationship immediately
        • Do not linger in guilt; linger in gratitude.

7. Reinforce Trust Through Repeated Obedience

Trust grows through experience.

Each time you obey and discover that God was faithful, your capacity to see His goodness increases.

“If anyone wants to do His will, he shall know concerning the doctrine…” — John 7:17

Understanding follows obedience, not the other way around.

Practice:

Start with small acts of obedience. Let lived experience confirm what Scripture declares about God’s goodness.

“I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice…” — Romans 12:1

Am I Seeing the Goodness of God?

Before transformation can occur, God must be seen accurately. Many people believe in God, obey God, or even fear God—but they do not truly know Him. If God is primarily perceived as distant, harsh, or easily disappointed, the heart will remain guarded, defensive, and self-protective. Repentance and surrender flow not from terror, but from rightly perceiving God’s goodness.

“Oh, how great is Your goodness, Which You have laid up for those who fear You…”  — Psalm 31:19

The following table is designed to help you discern whether you recognize God as He reveals Himself—or are you relating to a distorted image shaped by fear, wounds, or religion.

 

Area If I Do Not See God’s Goodness If I Recognize God’s Goodness
View of God God feels distant, stern, easily disappointed God is near, patient, and faithful
Default Expectation I expect correction before compassion I expect mercy alongside truth
Response to Failure Shame, hiding, self-punishment Confession, humility, return
Interpretation of Trials God is against me or punishing me God is refining, teaching, redirecting
Gratitude Rare or conditional Frequent and specific
Scripture Lens Verses feel demanding or threatening Verses feel instructive and hopeful
Prayer Tone Defensive or transactional Honest, relational, trusting

Reflection Questions

When I fail, do I move toward God or away from Him?

Do I believe God enjoys showing mercy?

Would I describe God as someone I want to be with?

Am I Applying the Goodness Of God To My Life?

Seeing God’s goodness is only the beginning; trust is the proving ground. Many acknowledge God’s goodness intellectually while continuing to rely on themselves in practice. Trust is revealed not by words, but by decisions—especially when obedience feels costly, unclear, or uncomfortable.

“In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God…” — 1 Thessalonians 5:18

The following table examines whether God’s goodness is actively shaping your choices, priorities, and responses, or whether fear, control, and self-reliance still dominate your day-to-day life.

 

Area Trust Is Weak Trust Is Growing
Obedience Delayed, negotiated, selective Prompt and willing
Motivation Fear of consequences Confidence in God’s wisdom
Decision-Making Heavy self-reliance Prayerful dependence
Control Difficulty releasing outcomes Peace after surrender
Risk Avoids obedience that feels costly Obeys even when uncomfortable
Prayer Content Mostly requests and complaints Praise, alignment, listening
Scripture Use Used for justification Used for correction and guidance

Reflection Questions

Do I obey only when I agree or understand?

Where am I still hedging instead of surrendering?

What would full trust look like in my current situation?

Am I Being Transformed?

Transformation is not measured by intention, knowledge, or religious activity—it is measured by change.

Behavioral improvement alone is not the goal; God calls for inward renewal that reshapes desires, identity, and character over time. Many people manage sin without being freed from it, restrain behavior without renewing the heart, or perform righteousness without intimacy with God.

The following table is meant to help you honestly assess whether the goodness of God is producing real, observable transformation in you—or whether you are still operating primarily in self-effort and compliance.

 

Evidence Behavior Constrained Heart Transformation
Desires Same desires, better restraint New desires emerging
Conviction Comes late and feels harsh Comes early and feels gentle
Sin Patterns Cyclical and recurring Interrupted and weakening
Humility Defensive when corrected Teachable and responsive
Love for Others Conditional and selective Expanding and sacrificial
Inner Dialogue Fear, self-justification Trust, surrender, hope
Fruit of the Spirit Inconsistent and forced Increasing and natural
Identity Still rooted in performance Rooted in sonship

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation…” — 2 Corinthians 5:17

Reflection Questions

Are my desires changing or just my behavior?

Do I recognize conviction sooner than I used to?

Are others experiencing God’s goodness through me?

So Where Are You?

Life is a journey and we all need to start somewhere. Which stage do you find yourself?

Stage Description
   
Blind / Oblivious Living Life, Ignoring God. Hoping for the best
Fear-Driven Compliance Obeying to avoid consequences
Mixed Motivation Obeying partly from fear, partly from trust
Goodness-Driven Obedience Obeying because I trust God’s heart
Transformed Living Desires, identity, and purpose reshaped

Where to Learn More

Scripture Themes to Study

God’s character and names (Exodus 34; Psalm 103)

Jesus as the Good Shepherd (John 10)

Grace and transformation (Romans 5–8; Titus 2)

Life in the Spirit (Galatians 5)

Key Questions for Study

How does God describe Himself?

How does Jesus treat sinners versus the self-righteous?

What does grace train me to do?

Call to Action

Stop obeying God merely to avoid consequences.

See His goodness. Trust His heart. Surrender fully.

Judgment may keep you from destruction.
Goodness will lead you into life.

“Taste and see that the LORD is good.” — Psalm 34:8

Do not settle for mere compliance when God is offering transformation and being set free.

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